Do you consider me cheating..:((

Philippines
June 15, 2007 2:00am CST
Im just thinking if i would be considered cheating on my boyfriend.Sometimes i would go out with my friends or boy friends way back i would not let him know or i dont ask permission.I even go out with those who courted me before but together with my friends.Is it bad or am i cheating?.For me we are just enjoying..
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8 responses
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
here is one thing. i think that you know that your boyfriend always want to be with you and because you are scared well it means that your boyfriend want to know where are you and what youve been doing at least everyday. if your going out with other guys and friends just to have fun, walk, talks, and not other than that, thats not cheating but if there is something more to that then it is cheating. one advice, if your not hiding anything from your boyfriend and he's an understanding guy its okey to tell him. but if he wont understand you, and he gets all jealous well i think he's controling your life and mind you girl, NOBODY and i mean NOBODY OWNS YOU.
@jcvernz (477)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
I do agree with you zangkits.
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
16 Jun 07
I don't see it as cheating as long as you didn't do anything intimate with someone else.
@maddysmommy (16243)
• United States
15 Jun 07
Nothing wrong with enjoying yourself with old friends and ex's but then again i would also tell your boyfriend, because how do you think he would feel if he saw you with an ex? how would you feel if you saw your boyfriend with his ex? if you both are comfortable with it then it shouldn't be a problem, but I would talk to him about it first so there is no misunderstandings.
@edis0n (5)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
As long as you know to yourself that your not doing something wrong then i don't think its cheating. It would be nice if you let him know, but asking permission its depends on the situation. In this case i don't think you have too ask permission, you have the freedom to enjoy life as long as your not hurting or stepping other people or your love one.
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
for as long as you will not fall for that guy you are not cheating. If i were you, i will not go out to guy whos courting me since i you have a boyfriend, or just tell that guy courting you to stop courting you. Make friend with him with that guy is much ok. It is okay if you were enjoying that, we just want to avoid if your boyfriend will find out about that guy courting you, it might still hurt his feelings.
@murthi (9)
• Sri Lanka
15 Jun 07
The decision is up to you. I alway make my lover aware of what I am doing and where I am going. I don't like to go out with my friends without him to enjoy a holiday. There is no happiness for me without him. If he is busy and cannot come with us, I also will not go with my friends. Both of us have good faith in each other and love each other very much. If he is with me, I do not need anything else.
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
it is not cheating...as you said you are jaz enjoying..it's normal besides you are not yet married commiting your life to your bf..just enjoy being single
@Sir_bobby88 (8245)
• Singapore
15 Jun 07
You are not marriage with your boyfriend , you don't to report 24 hours to him even if he is you husband that would be too much man .... anyway it is ok as long your heart is with him , then you are not cheating yea