How long should a man court a girl before he gives up?

@neon2000 (2763)
Philippines
October 24, 2006 2:55am CST
Do you easily give up courting a girl when you are having a hard time getting her YES?
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5 responses
@Schubler (1530)
• Romania
27 Oct 06
looool... Let me share something with you... When I was 14 I fell in love for the first time... and since then I have been loving this girl everyday...this untill a few months ago... I tried to be with her 87 times... brought her thousands of gifts, flowers, anything... put flowers on her doorstep for every morning for about 1 year... about 4 months I was doing this almost every day... Oh God!!! If you guys knew how many things letters, declaration of love, I`ve done... everything ... nothing worked untill she realised what my love meant to her... and gave me a chance... all this hopeing that one day she`ll love me... I gave up on this girl sometime ago... as she like all the others turned out to be just another woman... and not the one!!! But i still care about her... the only thing I know right now... is that i don`t think i`ll ever see her again... !!!
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@neon2000 (2763)
• Philippines
28 Oct 06
You deserve someone better buddy, definitely not her. I like your spirit. At least you tried and realize what kind of girl she is..:)
@zman87 (635)
• United States
28 Nov 06
If i want a girl ill take as long as however its gona take it took like 2 years to get my girlfriend i no that sounds pathetic but she just wasn't ready or something i don't know but i didn't give up and i still have her today and all that stuff i had to go through was worth it......
@neon2000 (2763)
• Philippines
28 Nov 06
Your fighting spirit deserves you to win the girl you love. It is really worth giving your best effort. Thanks!
@neon2000 (2763)
• Philippines
28 Nov 06
Your fighting spirit deserves you to win the girl you love. It is really worth giving your best effort. Thanks!
@caraj444 (1080)
• Canada
28 Nov 06
love  - love
i guess it depends on how much you really want to be with her, good things come to those who wait, if she was really worth it i dont think youd give up so easily (what if shes been hurt in the past and is just scared)
@neon2000 (2763)
• Philippines
28 Nov 06
I agree with you. No pain no glory. Its worth the wait if you won your girl's love.
@ArsonCuff (3121)
• United States
27 Oct 06
give up when she files the restraining order!...either that or when you get tired of giving and seeing no results and find that such things are having a negative impact on your life...such as alienating friends, family, or your messing up your finances.
@neon2000 (2763)
• Philippines
25 Nov 06
Well, if you love the girl, I guess, no problem with that.
• India
24 Oct 06
It never took me more than 3 weeks to court a girl and well i had always seduced a girl which i wanted,also many a times many girls get automatically sedued to me!But i prefer that girl which i have courted.
@neon2000 (2763)
• Philippines
27 Oct 06
Good answer! But 3 weeks is long enough, isn't it? But anyway, it doesn't matter. Maybe you are really in love with the girl you are courting.