Do you feel angry if someone cheat you?

China
June 18, 2007 8:57am CST
Just like the title,if someone cheat you. Do you feel angry? What will you do when you find some cheat you?
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@KissThis (3008)
• United States
19 Jun 07
If I was to catch my fiancee cheating on me I think that I would feel hurt more then angry. Our relationship would be over the instant that I would catch him. I would ask him to move out of my house. My life would then go on with out him. What else is there that I can really do? I wouldn't be able to change the act of betrayal.
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@senthil2k (1501)
• India
18 Jun 07
Yes. I do find it really angry and irritated, when someone cheats me. That too, if the someone is really close to me, whom I have trusted to my core, cheats me, then I cant really bear it. The worst sin in the world is DECEIVING the one who trusts you. Thats my belief.
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@ellie26 (4128)
• Malaysia
18 Jun 07
Hi tracy1985, it is only natural that we get angry when we get cheated, and of course I will get angry if that happen to me. I will stay far away from the cheater!
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@meatiitr (365)
• India
18 Jun 07
its natural to be angry if someone cheats you,and i m not an exception to that rule. Obviously you will feel cheated if you trusted someone and he betrays the trust. I try to keep myself cool if someone cheats me, i try be as rational as possible and try to find out if there was any fault of mine or if i expected too much...
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@jillmalitz (5132)
• United States
18 Jun 07
I think we all have the tendency to feel anry if we have been cheated. It doesn't matter if the cheating is in a personal relationship or business. It makes us feel betrayed and wary to being open to anythng again. My kids would get so mad at each other while they tried to play games because someone always said"you cheated".
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• China
18 Jun 07
yes,if you were cheated by someone,maybe you would be very disappointed and could not open you heart again. You will never believe in anyone easily.you will always suspect that he or she is cheating on you....it is terrible,your relationship will become bad.hehe......thank you.
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@youless (87106)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Jun 07
Sure, I will become very angry. I hate being cheated. I don't cheat others, so I don't deserve it. If some cheat me, then I won't trust them again any more. It's their loss.
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• Sri Lanka
19 Jun 07
Cheating can come in so many ways, even in financial ways. Financially we always get cheated and it ends up with someone earning what we should have earned. This is life and we have to put up with it. When more personal matters are concerned of course I will get angry, but what can I do?
@fengbo (731)
• China
18 Jun 07
yeah,i don't like someone cheat me,i am think he/she don't a honest people,it don't worth while me to make friends or loves.I think some people all like me don't like someone cheat us.When i was a children,my parents always teach me don't cheat somebody,man must be honest. I think the all the successful people must be mature,they have the big business,the honesty is the biggest value.I think all the people like to make friends with honest people. In my life,i feel i very fortunate.i don't meet someone ever cheat me,maybe sometimes i very carefully,when i have a talk with somebody,i am observed he/she very carefully.so i think if you notice somethings careful,i think someone is not cheat you very easy.But in our life,we have cheat by our friends,i think it is very pain,we believe our friends,but they don't honestly. i wish everybody have a good life,make good friends..The best wishes...
@Willowlady (10666)
• United States
18 Jun 07
If it is a business then I tell everyone of my experience. Justice done. If someone does it in person and I allow it then it is on me. I usually can catch them and make it right. Most of the time if they just ask me I could share and then they would not have to be bad. Anger is a chosen emotion and therefore a tool in the right hands.
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@whyaskq (7553)
• Singapore
18 Jun 07
These two days, I was feeling angry. All of a sudden, I felt cheated and shortchanged after something unexpected happened. I retaliate in sweet revenge just to get the bout out of my chest. In my opinion, it helps though I would prefer to hammer and exile those who cheated me out of my friendship.
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@aprilgrl (4460)
• United States
18 Jun 07
Yes I would feel angry and hurt but I would confront them if they cheated.
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@maribea (2366)
• Italy
18 Jun 07
well of course I feel angry, let's say furious!!! I hate people who tell lies, people who live only to deceive you and above all I hate people who take advantage of your trust. If the person who cheats me is a person I know well or a person who I care for, well this the worst of all things,.because I can feel angry but above all I feel sad and disappointed and very very hurt. there is nothing bad than being cheated by people you love
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• Philippines
3 Jul 07
Yes I do. I really feel angry at people who cheats on me. I always demand honesty and believes that if there are some problems, we can always talk about it. I am a very open person and because of this, I hate it so much when people have to hide things from me.
@Modestah (11195)
• United States
3 Jul 07
I tend to get the most riled up when someone has betrayed me, be it someone important to me or a complete stranger, I really dislike dishonesty and I would think that cheating falls under that heading.
@Gwapako_28 (2142)
• Philippines
3 Jul 07
I guess everyone will get angry when someone cheat on them.Me, Either they are my friends or member of my family,nah,it will really get me angry.
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
3 Jul 07
ofcourse, i would feel angry and hurt if someone cheats on me. for instance, i have no problem in paying up more when i go to buy stuffs or give cab fare but when someone cheats it makes me nervy and i get red. ch3easting is not agood thing and under no circumstances i would do it with others or want others to do it to me.
• India
3 Jul 07
If some1 cheats me obviously i will feel damn angry about it.Cause it is in human nature.But apart from this i wont tell That guy anything cause i know later on in life he might need my help and i wont be there to help him.
• Singapore
3 Jul 07
I will be very angry if someone cheats me with money, love and body.
@ideaman (64)
• Singapore
28 Jun 07
Yeah... I will get angry...
@Lydia1901 (16354)
• United States
20 Jun 07
Off course it will hurt me but I will move on eventually. But, I will never trust that person again and I will get as far away from them as possible.