where to search for love?

India
June 19, 2007 1:17am CST
Hi friends i am seriously searching for love. Where can i find it?
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13 responses
@coolcat123 (4390)
• India
19 Jun 07
love cant be searched its something which comes to you...you shouldnt go for it anywhere or find it. may be the one you are finding will be the lady next door to you and u may not recognise her. love is precious and you should find a true love and not a time pass love as you are sounding to get. can u tell some qualities that u are finding in your partner. why dont you check in ur college or localty you will surely get someone.
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• India
19 Jun 07
Well friend i think you got me right. Actually I am very lonely and i need someone beside me with whom I could share every bit of my life. Hopwever i would need to marry the one my parents select so it could sound as the time pass. As you said in my locality there are lts of girls but i dont know hoe wo approach sopecially whrn i see them in groups or with other men. I dont like it. I want someone who is also wanting love but is not getting. So that both of us ge someone to speak to, share our feelingsm, emotion, problems. I speak to very few people. Mostly its on mylot. thats it.
• India
19 Jun 07
fine then i think you dont need love instead you need a true friend who listens to you every time,understands you and know your every little needs.how sweet..... i think you should start with your neighbourhood....just start with a hi then it will go itself ....you dont have to do much then. atleast start talking to them.....then speak your dislikes and likes to them .....if they change themselves for you then she is the perfect one u r finding of.best of luck for that!
• India
19 Jun 07
Sure i will try. But i am really scared, what if they misunderstand my approach? moreover I am bad looking so they would not probably like to even reply back. And even might move aside by showing as if they are too busy and cant talk to me and avoid me always. Thats what i have been facing 27 yrs. Well in that case would you like to have me as your friend?
@lani0529 (1726)
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
Hello hollowheart!(",) Your avatar is really nice because I like Mr. Bean.lolz With regards to your question, in order to find love you have to seek the source of love. God is the source of love. If you find Him, you will know what love truly is.(",) Great day to you!
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• India
21 Jun 07
Thanks Lani. I love Mr Bean too much. thanks for your suggestion/
@smm0456 (48)
• United States
19 Jun 07
Hopefully you will just bump into it one day. You're not supposed to search for love.
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• India
19 Jun 07
hI SMM, I REALLY HOPE I BUMP INTO MY LOVE VERY SOON. HAHAHAHA. bUT I STILL HAVE A QUESTION. Why are we not supposed to search for love?
@butterfly39 (3907)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
Are you serious? then go to a dating website. and look for your desired women out there.
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• India
19 Jun 07
fRIEND CAN I FIND TRUE LOVE THERE?
@lucky_witch (2713)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
Lols! You v=cant just find it in the store my dear... And nowhere you can buy it. There is no exact place that I can say that you will find what you are looking for. Love is a one word with a thousand qualities wrap inside it. And you cant have it with a flick of your finger... it takes time to develop...there is no shortcut.. the more you hurry the more you will loose it... begins with friendship, then admiration... somehow turns into love. There is no assurance though...and there is no guarantee... only chances. You have to gamble... coz thats the only way... after that if nothing happens dont get tired... LET YOURSELF GROW AND MATURE...coz in time that you are really ready for commitment... GOD will give you what you are searching more than you expect....
• India
19 Jun 07
Very well said my friend. WELL AS YOU SAID YOU WOULD LIKE TO HAVE ME AS YOUR FRIEND.i WOULD ALSO BE VERY SUPPORTIVE AND HELPFUL. i AM REALLY IN NEED OF A TRUE FRIEND, MORE THAN LOVE AND MAY BE THAT FRIEND WOULD GET MY LOVE.
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
Yes I want you to be y fiend... just keep the faith and dont get tired...
• India
20 Jun 07
Thanks lucky witch
@mike2003 (287)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
You can search for it. You just have to distinguish whether that is love or lust...hahaha....You can find love everywhere , anywhere. Some people say not to search for it and that it will find you but that just does not work.It won't come to you..you have to search for it my friend...
• India
19 Jun 07
hi mike. Thanks for the response. But at the moment i am in a Dialemma as I dont kow what to do. Weather to listen to you ir the majoruty. I think i would ned to sit and decide and then go ahead.
@saierchok (1294)
• United States
19 Jun 07
love is everywhere, to start searching for love then start to search for it within you.. search your heart for it, search your soul, your imagination.. then search in the loving eyes that stare at you, then in the smiles, then in the winks.. you'll find it every where..
• India
19 Jun 07
well thanks my friend. It sounds nice but too tough to decide where to start and how to start. :)
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
19 Jun 07
I dont think that you need to search for it coz I believe that love will find its way to you not the other way around. Anyway, hope you'll find what your looking for and goodluck :)
• India
19 Jun 07
Thanks kawaii. but i realy doubt that love would ever find me or i would ever find love atleast in this birth. Sure I would keep trying and waiting but then, its too painful, too depressive and jus brings tears..
@mrddln (458)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
what is love? love is no guarantee! hwat you need to know before you fall in love what does it mean when you say to someone I love you? there are many answers and interpretations to this question, but when asked, the majority of people said that love is something they feel but cannot explain in words.
• India
19 Jun 07
Love is really vast so cant be expressed in words. every one has their own way of sensing it. i HAVE BEEN IN LOVE BEFORE UT SHE LEFT ME. i AM LONELY SINCE THEN.
@chenee08 (591)
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
you can't search for love just like that. love will come in the right time. dont rush on the things coz you might find the a wrong love,
@aaamm3003 (398)
• India
20 Jun 07
hey friend if you are really looking for a real love you dont have to go anywhere it will come to you as the time come so have patience
@shen23 (126)
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
be a member of a dating websites on the net.. there are lots for you to choose. just remember, you should have to be serious at all times, be sincere for your search and be honest always.. good luck..
@mrddln (458)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
how long does it take to get over infidelity? for those of you who really loved someone and decided to stay with your partner after discovering infidelity, how long did it take for the feeling of anger, hurt and betrayal to go way? i stayed with my partner who cheated me. And so far, its been almost one year and the feelings of hurt are still there.