'Mouth's Pushed vs Heart Beat'...

@add_im (2712)
Philippines
June 20, 2007 9:09am CST
Has anyone encounter such a matter like this, that you seem to hide something from the one special in your heart and that you keep hurting one's feelings verbally or in deeds...while at the same time, your heart is telling you to stop doing such and you once feel a certain feeling like just holding the person's back to you and say how sorry you are and beg them to come back to you...then came to realized after, how much you love the person so much in your heart afterall. Is this truly happening in one's real life or just a fantasy in one's life? Whatever your answers may be, please do share it with us and let us know how you feel about it.
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@derek_a (10902)
20 Jun 07
This is very interesting, but I believe whenever you are trying to hurt someone, and yet don't want to do it, it means that you have subconscious issues with something that loved represents when you are with them. And it won't be until you've recognised and resolved what it is, that these feelings will stop. This is quite a complex mental process, and one of the best ways of getting to the roots of the problem is to sit down and communicate about it (being absolutely truthful) and keep communicating about it every time it comes up, until it is resolbed.
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
That is true, it's all about solving the problem whatever it is face to face by just sitting down and settle the problem once and for all to find right solutions somehow.
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@derek_a (10902)
21 Jun 07
Oh yes, and if a couple does sit down and discuss it until there is no more to say, it will be resolved, even if it means that they will agree to disagree :-)
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
Exactly! to say nothing at all means everything works just fine...back together in each other's arms LOL :-)
• United States
20 Jun 07
No, I am not experiencing that. I am glad I am not because I would be stressed. The last thing I need now is stress.
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
I'm glad you never experience such a matter, it would truly be a so much stressed just to think about it. Thanks for sharing.