being a woman is very hard....

Philippines
June 20, 2007 9:20am CST
from having a monthly period which is sometimes we can experience pain, then when the time that we become pregnant and experience 10times pain in the time of labor..OUCH!! i can't imagine why girls are experiencing this kind of hardness..it is unfair? but i'm not questioning God why this is happening to us ladies..it's just i'm wondering why? please share your thoughts about this..thanks..
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29 responses
@student7 (1002)
• United States
23 Jun 07
I know and also they have to deal with people when they have PMS. It is really hard on me, I just want to crawl under something and hide, because I feel myself wanting to bite the head of anyone who wants to even think about looking at me. It is very hard to be a woman.
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@BethTN81 (564)
• United States
24 Jun 07
I'm strange. I am usually in a good mood when I have PMS a nd cranky the rest of the month. People may think that it is hard being a woman but I would rather be a woman than a man any day!
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• Philippines
26 Jun 07
yah, youre right..it's really hard being a woman, but it's fun at the same time..thanks for the response and have a great day..
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@austere (2816)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
hehehehe.. that's how it should be, and we should be proud of it!:) that's the reason why we are more resilient than men, because we are faced with a lot of these hard stuffs, it's just like how we became stronger in every challenges and trials, how a warrior becomes mightier in every battle!:) we are like that, molded to become stronger than men think we are. we are capable and strong and we have to realize that.:) not that i mean of superiority here..:) it's just that we should appreciate these small things that we have and we can do. we shouldn't see it as something unfair, because it is an edge that we have. it's a matter of seeing things, it's taking the positive side of the story, and that's how it should be right!:) being a woman is hard, but it's beautiful.. and if you will ask me, it's something i am thankful about.. it's lovely to be a woman!:) we might be delicate but we are tough!:) see we can even make men drool, that what makes us so powerful!hhehehe
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
yes, i agree that being a woman is hard but were sweet things to guys..hehehe thanks for the wonderful response friend..
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• Philippines
23 Jun 07
yes being a woman is so hard, but fulfilling. why?, because we are able to give birth to wonderful kids, we raise them to become good people of tommorow,and that;s what womanhood exciting and full of life.
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
yes, it's fulfilling because of a wonderful thing that's happening in our body when we are having a baby inside our womb..we are unique..thanks for the response friend..have a great weekend..
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@sidoney (1033)
• Jamaica
23 Jun 07
its because we are children of eve though I don't know why animals experience pain also especially labour
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• Philippines
23 Jun 07
my daughter's pic - she loves to pose..and i had fun taking her pictures..
yes, it's really hard being on labor even animals really experiencing this..thanks for the response friend and have a great weekend..
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@shorva (923)
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
Ok not only the physical pain experience, include the fact about double standards of morality. I always wonder, why women should be inferior than men. How come when we go out and party, leave the child with a nanny, we feel guilty? And when men does it, it's not a big deal to him or to anybody. Oh well, I'm still greatfull that I'm a woman.
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
yes, i'm wondering too how man doesn't give a big deal on handling children that way..thanks for the response friend and have a great weekend..
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@williamjisir (22904)
• China
20 Jun 07
Pain as you feel during the menstruation, you forget one important thing, that is, women enjoy a longer life than men partly because of this special monthly blood circulation. Women can always have blood circulated once a month, which men are unable to experience. What is something painful can be something enjoyable in life. Enjoy the gift from God. Lol
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• Philippines
21 Jun 07
yes, it is a gift from God..and i know why he gave this kind of hardship to us coz woman are more strong that man...do you agree? thanks for the response friend...have a great day...
• China
21 Jun 07
I agree with you, friend, for the hardships God gave to women. I have always thought that women are greater than men since they give birth to babies to make new generations keep going. Thanks again for your response.
• United States
20 Jun 07
It is because of Eve. She took the fruit and gave it to Adam and now all of us women are paying for it.
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• Philippines
20 Jun 07
yes, that is in the bible..what can we do, we don't have any choice but to accept the fact that we need to suffer from what Eve has done...thanks for the response friend..
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Lovelyladydancing is correct, but istn it afterall the sacrifice there is always a consolation? And it is our child/children. And of course God always gifted women's a perfect partner for their entire life as what we have.
@decent07 (232)
• India
25 Jun 07
yes being women is very hardbut i think due to our mennstrual problem we have some benefit also as it reduce risk of many disease
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• Philippines
26 Jun 07
yes, i agree..we are unique person that's why..thanks for the response friend..
@archer1811 (1099)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Hi cherriemae! All that are parts of being a woman. But what if a man get a monthly period or get pregnant? Its weird isnt it?Hahaha. But inspite of taking all the pains for being a woman its still a great experience for us.
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• Philippines
26 Jun 07
Yes, hahaha..it's really weird..so, i saying that we are unique because we had lots of experiences that you don't experience..thanks for the response and have a great day..
@Lydia1901 (16354)
• United States
25 Jun 07
Yes, we do not have it easy at all. It is so sad that is happening to us but I guess it is our curse. But, I still am proud to be a parent regardless though.
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• Philippines
26 Jun 07
me too..i'm a proud parent to my daughter..thanks for the response friend and have a great day..
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@BethTN81 (564)
• United States
22 Jun 07
I am the believer that Eve's disobedience to God is what makes women today hurt in childbirth. Also, if there was no pain in childbirth I firmly believe it would be harder to deliver. Most women know they are in labor when they experience certain pain!
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• Philippines
23 Jun 07
yes, i agree to you my friend, about what the bible says..thanks for the response friend and have a great weekend..
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@aj2006 (1536)
• Philippines
22 Jun 07
GEE! be proud that we are unique.. we have those undertakings that a man cannot have. We are the creation of beauty and we fulfill a dream, I'm happy to be a woman and I still want to be one even if I'm given a chance to be born again. :) We are the lucky ones and let us be proud!
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• Philippines
23 Jun 07
yes, i'm proud of being a unique one, of course..but i'm just asking sometimes why we are experiencing like this..thanks for the response friend..have a great weekend..
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• India
21 Jun 07
i agree with u cherrimae,the pain is sometimes unbearable for weak women. but dont worry....in 20 years may be all problems of woman may be solved due to latest technology. God is fair in many things between men n women...its unfair to blame him
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• Philippines
22 Jun 07
i'm not blaming him manish, i'm just wondering why woman are suffering like this..i love God and i'm happy that i'm a woman because i know i'm strong because he gave me this kind of sufferings and hardships that i can handle it..thanks for the response and have a great day..
@youless (90967)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Jun 07
I totally agree with you. Women have to experience lots of suffering. Long time ago I also felt suffering whenever there was a period time. When I was pregnant, I always worried about the labour pain. Now I have to take care of my family and also have to work hard. But I have to say something for men here. They are not easy, either. They have to work hard outside everyday so that we can live well. When he meets any setbacks, he won't tell you. He overcomes it by himself. So we just have different position, but men and women all face the same difficulties.
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• Philippines
22 Jun 07
yes, i totally agree with you too friend...but all woman has more sufferings than men in terms of what we are experiencing as women..thanks for response friend and have a great day..
• India
21 Jun 07
I never argued with God that why this happens with us,infact i feel lucky that we are getting a chance to be a mother and we shouldn't miss that oppurtunity....Its such a lovely feeling though i am not gone through it but i can imagine and i am ready to bear that pain....
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• Philippines
22 Jun 07
me too, i'm very much ready for another pain because i already experienced that..i'm not argued with God, it's just i'm wondering why we are experiencing this, maybe because we are tough and strong enough to handle all this pain..thanks for the response and have a great day..
@subha12 (18453)
• India
21 Jun 07
yaa i also think its very bad being a woman.we have to take al the pains in life. again men always try to put us at the bottom. Its very bad. I also wonder why GOD has made us so.
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• Philippines
22 Jun 07
yah, just wondering but i think the reason why God give that kind of hardness to us it's because we can handle it with patients..thanks for the response friend and have a nice day...
@mimpi1911 (25454)
• India
21 Jun 07
hi cherrie, i feel, women have immense power to withstand odds with strength and dignity and they stand out tall in crises, be it childbirth or other family emergencies. they are made to be like that right from their childhood. however, having said this, had it been a man who was meant to bear child, he would have the same attributes!!
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• Philippines
21 Jun 07
thanks for sharing your thoughts friend..it's so wonderful to hear that from you..thanks for that and have a wonderful day..
@thefuture (1751)
• Nigeria
20 Jun 07
I am not a lady friend, but I think that was how God made made it. You ladies are really experiencing hardship most expecially when it comes to giving birth. hands
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
yes, i agree..God has a purpose for that..thanks
@aprilgrl (4460)
• United States
20 Jun 07
I see alot has the same answer as I was going to say. Blame it on Eve for eating that apple.
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• Philippines
21 Jun 07
i'm not blaming anybody here..it's just i'm wondering why we suffered this much..but i know God has a reason for this..and still i'm lucky to be a lady..thanks for the response and have a great day..
• Kottayam, India
20 Jun 07
God made her as weaker vessel ready to break to smithereens
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• Philippines
21 Jun 07
thanks for that friend..God has a purpose for us to experience that..have a great day..