The easiest way to move on..

@kharen (1488)
Philippines
June 22, 2007 9:47am CST
There are so many ways to move on and these are: what? What are the best ways to forget and move on easily? It'll help alot of people to know how you've moved on..so that they would try to do it and lessen the pain they're suffering bcoz of love.. ??
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14 responses
• United States
23 Jun 07
i think the best way to move on is no contact with the person,hang out with friends doing things you have not done in a while and spend time getting to no the new you because,after the end of every relationship you grow you learn new things about yourself and what you want out of life
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
hangigng out with my friends? hangigng out with my friend who is her ex? who pushed and made fun,while i'm getting hurt..they pushed muy ex to someoene..to their classmate even if they know that i'm hurting so much?? :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
@golfproo (1841)
• Canada
23 Jun 07
I am not sure if there is an easy answer to this...if there is I would sure like to hear it because this is what I am going through right now. I think letting go of the past is really the only thing that is working for me. To not think about it and concentrate upon what is going on around me is what gets me through the day. I don't think jumping into a new relationship is really that healing or fair to the new person. That will have to come when the healing has occurred. cheers,
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
i know..i have lots of ways..i know lots of ways on how to move on but they're all hard and difficult to do..i just want to be with him again..
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
i think the best way to move-on is to let go the memories you had so, if you let go of your memories it`s easy for you to move-on cause the memories you had may serve as the your reason to hold that feeling..
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
i know but it's just really very very hard to let go of the memories..specially that everyday i have to meet the people that reminds me ofhim and the hurt..everyday,i have to pass by all the places i have been with the one i love..and the worst? See him everyday with your friends and the one he's trying to court for now.. it really hurts..i wanna die right now for this kind of hurt i'm feeling..i need help..but no one is there for me right now..
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
Hmm... maybe meet people, more people, the better,,, socialize with them. But not love again so fast. Maybe should concentrate more on studies or on career, people you love like families and friends more than love for a long time. Be an avid avid fan of a celebrity or spend time on an interesting hobby. Some ways could make you forget the pain...
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
being with my family and friends just make me remember him more..the apin..i have no time for being an avid fan because my mom won't let me do hobbies like those 'cause she's say i must just take care of my baby sis than baing a fan of people who i don't know.. actually none of them understands me..sometimes i remember the pain and ask the wind, myself or God..until when will i be like this? or until when will i be miserable? or until when can i control my emotions?...
@archer1811 (1099)
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
Maybe the best way to move on, first dont go into places where you and your bf/gf always go, dont always think of him specially all your sweet moments try to think about his bad attitude so that in your heart love that you feel will change into hatred, think of the last moment why you have to move into separate ways if the cause of your separation is because of the other boy/girl think of him as he is a big suck tryin to fool you, and most of all try to avoid things that will make you remember him.
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
not go into places where we went? Well, one is our school and the mall near us and the roads we take to be able to go home..oofff.. i can't escape those..all reminds me of my ex.. i can't get mad at my ex..it's not easy..no matter how much i think of how he's hurt me..i just go back to loving him...and missing him more..
@uu4h708 (638)
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
moving on will never be easy... no matter how silly the reason for the separation is.. moving on will remain to be one of the most difficult things a person can do.... my boyfriend is saying that moving on is different... and that "starting over" is better than moving on.. coz in the latter, there is the tendency of going back to the past or reconciling but when you say starting over, there are no exlovers,... if that's the case, the first step of "forgetting" is to know where you stand. knowing what you wanna do with your life, setting your goals... from there.. whatever you're planning to do can be a bit easier...
@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
you're also one of my best responses..too bad i can only mark one mylotter to be a best response.. it really isn't easy, i want to forget but seeing my ex everyday just makes me realize how i still love my ex very much..i'm so exhausted right now..i don't know what to do..
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
I think the easiest way to move on is to go out with someone who is very much in love with you. So you can easily forget the one who hurt you even for that day only. I was once broken hearted but i just go out with someone and eat chocolates while at home, it takes so much time for me to easily forget him for just a while. I think having a vacation too might help, like going in some places, out of town, or even out of the country so you can have a new surrounding and people to get along with. It might help to forget the one who hurt you and lead you in meeting someone else deserving.
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
Going out on a vctaion also makes me remember.. making me think and hope how we might be having fun together when we're still together..
• India
22 Jun 07
Just for get about your old mate and move onto a new one, if your able toconnect with a new person fast then all the better.
@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
i know..your totally rioght but right now, i have no one who connects with me with those special feelings etc..there are some but i know they are just doing it for past time..
@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
Time is our best friend here. Moving on is a process and it takes a whole lot of time for us to do this. ;) Just take it slow and easy pal and for sure you'll get through all of this pains sooner. More Power and Godbless! ;)
@chenee08 (591)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
it's easy to say but its so hard to do. i really believe that time heals those wounded heart.feel the pain till it hurts no more. let your tears for once.
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• China
23 Jun 07
Well when some one move on to a new place may pay more attention to creat new relationship with new neighbors.But on other hand old friends may have data on an fix time. Good luck!
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• Philippines
23 Jun 07
There is no easy way to move on. Losing someone you love could be most painful. I think acknowledging the pain is the first step to moving on. When the pain pass the acceptance follow. And eventually letting go. Accepting the lose and letting go is the only way a person can move on. But it's not an easy process. It usually take days, weeks, months maybe years. Friends and family is a big factor in the process of healing. Just letting the person in pain know that he or she is not alone.
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• Singapore
23 Jun 07
For me, i would spend more time with my parents... When we suffer because of love, they can feel it... eg. when i have girlfriend, they are eager to meet her and feel happy for me... when i break-up with her, they would console me and feel sad for me... Therefore, when i am abandoned by my gf or having a break up with her, i would spend more time with my parents who love me, and not 'sigh'-ing how pitiful i am.
@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
for you..but not for me..
@diansinta (7550)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 07
the hardest part is 'to jump on' make decicion. the rest will follow. don't be scare