which do your prefer?

@jazmin08 (173)
Philippines
June 24, 2007 1:05am CST
to live together with your partner(live-in) or to get married instantly? for me i think i preferred live in with my partner so that i will know him more then eventually we'll get married,but only if we get along and if not i'll just break up with him no annuallment or divorse its easy like that.
8 responses
@Ravenladyj (22940)
• United States
24 Jun 07
Oh there is absolutley NO WAY I would get married to someone without living with them first....I'm a very difficult person to live with and to be with actually since I'm far from your standard type person so living together is a must for me..
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@joimarquez (1840)
• United States
27 Jun 07
im open minded about living in together....to know your partner better.
@OURDEW (4812)
• United States
27 Jun 07
I think living with your partner fist is a great idea. You don't really know someone until you live with them. I lived with my now husband for six years before we got married. I think everyone should know what they are getting into before marriage.
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
25 Jun 07
live in. I dont want to get married and when I find out that we are not compatible then we'll get a divorce or something. Living together will help me to know more about him. assess his attitude and see if we can be together or not :)
• United States
25 Jun 07
Either or. I probably say this because my partner and I sort of, well pretty much have experienced living together. We've spent two years at college practically living together, and about a year doing so as she spent all of her time in my room. The next two years will be spent living together in a dorm room so we've pretty much already done that. Living together before marriage I think is nice and definitely will make the whole marriage thing a lot better, especially after the honeymoon, because you're already lived together and you can experience newlywed bliss much longer than a couple that has never lived together.
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
I preferred to get married first of course,before living together as one. You don't have to get in a hurry to get married when having a relationship,took your time to know him/her better before you decide. I can't imagine myself living with the guy without having blessed by God and my family. And i don't even agree with having a divorce or annullment.
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
Uhm, I'd go for the get married instantly thing. But of course I'll make sure that I really love the person and I know him inside and out before we get married.
• United States
24 Jun 07
I am a classic (traditional) gal. I will never sleep with anyone until we get marry. And I won't get marry until I know that person inside and out. I know in today world, lots of people living together without marriage. But I am not going to be like that. That's just wrong. Well... call me old fashion. I am taught that way.