Is it true that there is nothing permanent but change!

Philippines
June 24, 2007 3:25am CST
I just wonder, everything in our life really change physically, emotionally, spiritually, environmentally,socially and the like.. But why do people's attitude is hardly change?? There is some attitude of a person that cannot be change no matter what, maybe there's a a bit change but still it will keep coming back to its origin, no matter what you do there's really certain attitude of a person that is hard to change.. it's like.. its already become a habit to them. How about you, do you have attitude that you really want to change but you still keep on doing it??
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9 responses
• India
24 Jun 07
It is true that everything around keeps on changing every second. No moment is same as the other. But, when it comes to human beings it is not proper to say that therer is a change. Maybe, due to some materialistic possessions we may change our life styles but the most basic thing as to attitude doesn't change so easily. It is the imprint which we have on our minds right from the childhood. Whatever the elder do becomes a teaching to the children. So, if the atmosphere is always heated at home the children think that it is the right way of life and put it in their subconcious mind. Now, if at a later stage in life if he wants to change this attitude its pretty much difficult to get rid of it unless someone goes to the grass root level and comes out with a solution.
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
Yeah..right! Our attitude is really hard to change cause its rooted since we're born! but if we realize that our attitude is not that good we can change it if we really determined to change it for better. Thanks for the response!
@laltu86 (1253)
• India
24 Jun 07
"Chane is the nature , change is the evaluation" hardy thomas said it in one of his lectures at the cambridge, what you have said is true some attitudes doesnt change but its nit that it cannot be changed , every thing in this world is succeptable to changes. I belive my anger is the attitude that i would like to discard from my life but frankly speaking sometimes this attitude can make impossibles possible so i dont know for sure if i can change that easily :)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
You can! if you really determined to!!
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Thanks for the response!!
@happymom1 (1179)
• United States
24 Jun 07
Everything has change and we cannot ignore it or change it. Thats really about life if dont have changes its borin and it seems doesnt have flavor at all. I like change in life i want to feel the life that i dont have before so now i am changing a little bit. That attitude of ours can change and thats depend on a person.
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
I agree with you!
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Thanks for the response!! we really have to exert extra effort if we want to change the attitude of ours that is not that good!
@williamjisir (22909)
• China
26 Jun 07
It depends on the personality of the person. To some people, it is maybe hard to change, but to some others, it is not. As to me, I am just between.
• Philippines
29 Jun 07
Yeah.. it also depends to a persons personality!!
• Australia
26 Jun 07
I think it's all about the attitudes, thoughts, feelings, ideas that you grow up with. It can be hard to change a lifetime of habit, and teachings. Personally, I would like to change my attitude towards myself. I tend to be hard on myself, which causes problems. But, like I said, it can be difficult to change a lifetime of habit.
• Philippines
29 Jun 07
Really there's a lot of people who are being hard to themselves, but I think its not good if you continue being like that with yourself..cause I believe that how you treat yourself is how you also treat other people, how can you be good to other people if to yourself your not..but sometimes there are people who are good to others but not with themselves..but I don't think any reason why do they have to do that?!
@Mitraa (3188)
• India
25 Jun 07
Yes, change is the prime law of Nature. Persons change, their attitudes and habits also change, environment changes, friends & friendship change, enemies & enemity change, our age and physiology change, status and position change... Every thing goes on the undeniable process of change and that is the reality of this physical world! Permanet also faces many permanent changes and we may call it apparently permanent! I have attitude to change my many habits and ideas, but those go with me as my pets and un affected by any change. Perhaps they may not change and I shall have to control and manage them. Thanks for this nice topic.
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
Thanks also for your nice response! yeah..if we cannot change certain attitude of ours it would be better if we know how to control and manage them.
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
I think there's no human attitude or behavior that cannot be changed. It just need some time but eventually it will change. For me as for now, Im happy with who I am and what I am. If people can't accept me for what I am the I don't bother. I won't change just to please or someone unless that someone is worth changing to.
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
Yeah..right!! thanks!
@kelly60 (4550)
• United States
24 Jun 07
You are right that all of these things change. Attitudes are often hard to change. It can sometimes be done, but it isn't always easy to do.
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Yeah..your right! thanks!
@magnet (2089)
• United States
24 Jun 07
I believe that a person has to have to have integrity in order to change an attitude. Since we are tested everyday sometimes we fail and that causes us to repeat the same behavior, but when we fail we don't have to stay there. All we have to do is get back up and continuing walking with God.
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Integrity plus determination a really most helpful characteristic to change the attitude that we think is really hard to change cause its already part of our personality. Thanks!
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