Dating tips: Rejection isn't the end of the world

Philippines
June 24, 2007 8:38am CST
you may be afraid to aproach guys/girls but trust me,they are feeling just as scared as you. if a guy would reject me in highschool. i thought it was a privotal moment in history. It's the most dramatic thing. But if i had known that it wasn't so serious when things likethat happened -- that tomorrows gonna be another day - -- that would have helped me so much back then.
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5 responses
24 Jun 07
Your right. Rejection isn't the end of the world and it's just the start of another page/story. I wished more would focus on finding the right person, I strongly believe people will actually know if it's "truly" right and no just an attraction. ~Joey
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• Philippines
24 Jun 07
most people are really carried away with infactuation they seem to just stay on it and believe that what they feel is right. thanks for giving your comments on this, im kind of a fan on you last discussions
24 Jun 07
You'll be seeing me more around your discussions too :) It's been a while seen I've received a nice comment/ reply such as yours. It's nice to know :) See you around, ~Joey
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@gr8life (6253)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 07
Hi, there! I agree with you but the problem is, we always think whenever negative thing happens to us, it will be the end of the world. As human being, definitely we don't like rejection and that is normal. To face the reality is another hard thing to do especially when you are being rejected for some kind of reason that you cannot accept -:O I, myself, don't like rejection and lucky that I never approached any guys when I was still schooling. So, I don't have any experience of how hard it would be when you are rejected by someone you like/love.
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• Philippines
24 Jun 07
oh yes nice :) "to face reality" thats something some of us can't really accept. :) real nice dude
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
HAHA obviously, rejection is not the end of the world! I mean like, you should not give up, when you've been rejected once, twice, even trice or so many times, it doesn't really mean that its the end of the world for you.. There's still a way to survive, even its hard yeah.. but that's what life brings and that's what life is all about! Just cheer up and don't ever give darling! Have a nice day ahead from Francis.
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
well yeah it isn't the end of everything but sometimes . .GUYS GUYS GUYS please yeah i know ive said never give up . . but sometimes you just know how to quite sometimes :P
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
well yeah it isn't the end of everything but sometimes . .GUYS GUYS GUYS please yeah i know ive said never give up . . but sometimes you just know how to quite sometimes :P
• United States
24 Jun 07
Some years ago here in the USA there was a hit country music song titled, I think, " Thank God for unanwered prayers. ". The song told a story which was this. More than anything else in the world this man thought he was in love with a certain woman. He even prayed to God concerning the matter. Still, that woman rejected him. The song is about the man thanking God for not listening to him or granting his wish. You see, he was now much more in love with someone else and very happily married. If God had granted his request in his earlier prayer, none of the happiness he now had would have been possible. Rejection is not always a bad thing.
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
wow he took the matter and asked help to god .. :) back then guys were really formal when it comes to courting a woman . . now it seems like its in a fast track kind o stage
@munhozmib (3853)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
24 Jun 07
Yes, you got a point in there! It's not the end of the World, you know. You have always another chance, you can always ask again, you can always try once more. Well, knowing this sure does help me nowadays. I am not that afraid of rejection. I approach girls when I want and usually I get rejected. So what? I try again.