loneliness
@02FreeSpirit22 (99)
United States
June 24, 2007 8:09pm CST
I have been married for four years now, and am getting really lonely. My husband and I were merely inseperable, and we even worked together for the past few years. Now I stay at home with our kids, and he works. I get so depressed sometimes, because it seems like he never wants to be with me anymore. I don't have any transportation at the moment, so I go crazy trying to keep the house up, and the kids entertained. Then when he gets home, it's like we don't even exsist. I have this dream that someday it's only us, and we spend our life together happily ever after, but I'm afraid thats from shrek. I just don't want to fill the void with something or someone else, if there is a way that he can understand. PLEASE HELP!
2 responses
@agnescav (566)
• United States
25 Jun 07
You need transportation. You cannot stay at home all day with small children. You will go nuts. Meeting other women is not just filling a void. Get your kids involved in some activities and then volunteer to help out Then you will be less upset that your husband seems to have a whole life that is
separate from yours and you will have thngs to talk about, too.
@canjo13317 (396)
• United States
25 Jun 07
just hang in there freespirit. he is probably thinking the same things but doesn't know how to express it. times get tough in a relationship. sometimes you can spend too much time together and then when you are apart it seems harder. try to find a hobby to do or crafts, something to help occupy your time. something you enjoy. things will work out in time. have a little Faith.
