can i send a message to a pending request friend

friends i thank u - friendship is a best relationship
June 25, 2007 2:49am CST
i have a referral who has not yet added me as friend, my request stands pending. i want to message her and thank her personally so how do i mesage her?
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5 responses
28 Jun 07
I think you have to be approved. Awhile back I read somewhere you have to be a friend to send a message etc. :( Sorry I can't be any more help. ~Joey
• United States
25 Jun 07
No you can only send a PM once she accepts you as a friend.
@asmurthy (2464)
• India
25 Jun 07
no you can not send a message to a pending request friend. Wait till she adds you as a friend.
@gscs1838 (1536)
• Malaysia
25 Jun 07
i'd tried that before, conclusion : no! for me, i would like to try out - to figure out it myself. perhaps, you can try to send me a message?
@alpine_007 (1476)
• Pakistan
25 Jun 07
no, i think that you can't send a message to a pending friend request, has she log in since you requested friendship, if that user has started any discussion respond to it and if you want to say thanks then you can say it there.