How do you feel when your ex-boy/girfriend is dating a good friend of yours.

@Katagiri (426)
Brazil
June 26, 2007 6:40pm CST
How do you feel? Last year I had a boyfriend for 2 months after 5 years of loneliness (good times), he got tired and broke up, some time latter, a friend of his, told me he was dating a good friend of mine. I felt sorry for her, I just couldn't feel angry specially about her. She's a nice and sweet girl and she was in need of someone to take care of her... knowing both of them I knew he went at her talking sweet things and she was hooked. I don't know the end of the story but, according to his behavior, he could do to her the same thing he did to me. So... I couldn't get angry... but I might if he hurts her feelings.
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@eadward (140)
• Brazil
27 Jun 07
Considering your scenario first, I'd probably be sorry for my friend. If one of my girlfriends let me down like that, by "getting tired" of me... Well, first I'd have a man to man conversation with my friend. A conversation wich probably he would have come having first, because men respect their friends "properties". I'd of course let him have her, but I'd say everything I knew about her, and then he would be prepared for dealing with the b*tch. Bad for her. On the other hand, if I had broken up with a girlfriend from a long time, or for some reason wich could be seen as my mistake, I'd feel very bad if someone who claims to be my friend started dating the girl in the upcoming months.
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@Katagiri (426)
• Brazil
27 Jun 07
I didn't talk to my friend about that and I hope she doesn't find it by herself. Long time no see her.
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@eadward (140)
• Brazil
27 Jun 07
She doesn't know what he did, or she doesn't even know you and her boyfriend were together once?
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@Katagiri (426)
• Brazil
27 Jun 07
She doesn't know what he did.
• United States
26 Jun 07
I wouldn't feel bad about it at all..I only dated teh scum of the earth type jerks that put up a front in the beginning like they were good guys..once I found out that they weren't worth the air they breathe, I let them go..so if a friend of mine ends up with him, I will pretty much feel sorry for her and have a new man lined up for her when she has to let the jerk I had already go...
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@Katagiri (426)
• Brazil
27 Jun 07
Cool! You think just like me!
• Indonesia
19 Jul 07
no problem for me! it's someting like "end of discussion" when we broke up.i don't have a right about his life anymore. unless my best friend ask for some advise from me, i won't tell anything about him. It's there problem, not mine.
@Katagiri (426)
• Brazil
19 Jul 07
My friend never told me about her relationship with him, she knows I don't care. But I'll feel sorry if she goes through the same as me.
• United States
2 Jul 07
Does she know how it ended between the two of you? If so, it surprises me that she would even think about dating him. If not, you'll just have to let her figure it out on herself. She will probably get mad at you if you try to tell her anything bad about him. It's not worth losing your friendship over. Let her figure it out and eventually she'll dump him too.
@Katagiri (426)
• Brazil
19 Jul 07
That's why I kept my mouth shut. I have no idea how the situation is now.