who are you going to choose a person you love or the person who loves you?

@jbelle (912)
Philippines
June 26, 2007 9:06pm CST
I think I will choose the man whom I love since for me, I will be happy being with him... And he will just learn to love me...
1 person likes this
9 responses
@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
22 Aug 07
i've been into different relationship before and i would wanted to experience someone who will truly love me.,and if he really does then thats the time that i should try to learn to love him just like the way he did.Ü
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
22 Aug 07
yeah, that's true so you then learn to love the person who loves you? thanks for the response....
1 person likes this
• Pakistan
27 Jun 07
Love is not by choice. Love is by chance. You decided that you will choose a man and you will teach him love. nay, no. love could not be taught. Love is name of feelings of human being. This is a got gifted element. Opposite charges attract each other and same charges repel each other. Some unseen rays work to attract and repel. love is some thing unseen but could be felt. If you like some one you could not explain that why I am falling in his love. So dont think that you will choose a man and you will teach him about. this is not step by step process of learning or teaching something. It is a need, rquirement, and it works with unseen automation.
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
27 Jun 07
I mean about my X and my present boyfriend ofcourse i will choose my present boyfriend... if i were to ask who are you going to choose?
1 person likes this
• Canada
22 Aug 07
Fortunately for me, the person I love is also the person who loves me. Love is wasted if two people odn't love eachother mutually. to love someone who does not love you back, or to be loved by someone whom you do not love, is a waste of love. Love is not a one-sided thing.
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
22 Aug 07
hi! i think you are lucky enough for you find someone who loves you and you love.. because sometimes life are complicated... treasure yuor relationship... more happy years to come...
• India
22 Aug 07
i choose the person who loves me and that is my husband ours was the arrenge merriege and before merriege we did not know weather we love each other or not but gradually my husband came to reaqlise to me that he loves me so much more than anything in this world and i loves him very much too,so i choose the man who loves me for me.
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
23 Aug 07
Wow lucky you are, here in my country we dont have the arrange marriage thing... Is it still practice in your country? what country are you from? why do you arrange marriage?
@Oneoneo (183)
• Bangladesh
23 Aug 07
For me its actually depends on situation. I will have seldom to love someone myself. It will only happen If I feel so deep love with someone. Obvioubly that love love will grow beacuse of her inner beauties, not for her externalities. I will love her passion, emotion, thinking, her way to approch to others, Her wormth of herat to helpless people. It is very possible that I will fall in love with someone who loves me. And also obviously I wont fall in love everyone wh loves me. I must have to know why she had fallen in love with me. I must have to seen if she ahs the quality what I look to be my loved.
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
yeah but hoe about the person you really love doesnt love you? will you still pursue your feeling for her?
@Malyck (3425)
• Australia
23 Aug 07
I'm lucky enough to be in a loving relationship with my boyfriend. We are in love with one another, and that is the way I feel it should be. I wouldn't want to "learn to love somebody" or be with them simply because they love me. I have to love them too. I hope you find such a person and relationship.
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
23 Aug 07
Yep actually i choose the man I really love.. thanks for the response...
@alienstar (5142)
• India
23 Aug 07
Some people may agree to marry the person they love and some others will prefer the opposite person loving them and both have their strong views and i definitely prefer both and i just believe that love will change everything and if the love is true it will turn out gold
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
24 Aug 07
Hi, I would like some one who love me , the rest my lot is always will be sincere to her.
• Philippines
23 Aug 07
i will choose no one. i'd rather not be with anyone else, if the person i love does not love me. why push myself to him? it is his loss notmine. if i choose to be with the person i donotlove, i will just punish myself.