Will you consider cheating if you had the chance?

@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
Mexico
June 29, 2007 11:52am CST
If you've done it, can you briefly explain the main reason? If you haven't and had the chance, why didn't you went for it? Will you do it if you had the absolute, guaranteed, opportunity to do it? And why would you in case your response is "YES"?
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8 responses
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
during the time when i was still living together with the dad of my four kids.... and living with him is very complicated. i was thinking that i should or could cheat just to call it even..... my response to your discussion is it depends on the personality of the person. some can really take or afford to cheat if they had the change and tell themselves "as long as nobody will know." for me? no, i wouldnt cheat even if i have the chance. i believe in KARMA and it is really painful if you realize the one you love cheats behind your back so i will not do something like that. happy posting and welcome to mylot.
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
31 Aug 07
Hi roniroxas, Thanks for your welcoming. I also think that things have a way to turn around, and even if someone thinks they can get away with something, sooner or later they'll find out they will not, not necessarily in the same matter but in some other way. Be happy, and have a wonderful day !!!
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@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
31 Aug 07
just think about how painful it is if someone cheat behind your back.... if you do nice things to people nice things will happen to you. maybe in some point in time you were hurt and felt betrayed but in the end of every story or what they say in the end of the rainbow there is a pot of gold.
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@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
15 Mar 08
Hi roniroxas, I agree with that, things do turn around at some point, you do bad, expect something bad, and vice versa. I think we must consider thinking what would happen if we're in the other person's shoes. You have a great day, thanks !!
@miggy12 (40)
• United States
29 Jun 07
Hi Rtlsnk316: My answer would be NOOOOOO!!! It's immoral and uterly disgusting when you see people doing that. I know that people say "but he/she is not treating the other spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend right" but that doesn't make it right. If that is the case, then either divorce or breakup with the person doing the hurting. How would they like it if their better half was cheating on them. They wouldn't so they shouldn't do it either. Anyway, that is my two cents. Hope this makes sense. Have a great day.
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
29 Jun 07
Hi miggy12, That makes total sense, in fact that should be considered as an universal answer. You have a great day !!
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@Modestah (11192)
• United States
15 Mar 08
oh my goodness!!! I had no thought that this question was regarding having an affair, I thought it was like cheating at cards or cheating the system type of thing. I think that your answer, miggy12, was spot on!
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@Modestah (11192)
• United States
15 Mar 08
I am batting a thoussand tonight, aren't i? spot on, except for the divorce part... I do not agree with that. though, if you are so compelled to cheat and determined to and nothing is going to change your mind - you should remove yourself from your family I suppose, and not make them pay even more for your sins of the flesh.
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• United States
30 Jun 07
i think I could but I get bored the same thing night after night and want more but he isnt open to anything
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@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
2 Jul 07
Hi aninspiration, Hopefully things shall work out with your man, even if you consider doing it or not, I didn't started this discussion to judge people, just to know their thoughts, and you are in your own right to feel exactly how you do, but among everything and everybody, be happy and feel good with yourself !! Have a nice one.
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• Pakistan
29 Jun 07
No way Because cheating means loosing trust and in relationship the first and the last peeler is trust if you lose that you will lose your relationship so avoids these things and be faithful to your partner.
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@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
29 Jun 07
Hi billabadmash, That's the keyword: trust, if there is none, then there's no point. Thanks a lot for your comment !!
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@Cannonball (3636)
• France
21 Jan 08
Well , I would lie if i say the idea didn't come up to my mind . I mean to own a website and gather lot of money on people like me who tries to earn some from home . But I wouldn't do that coz I'm different from them ,I just couldn't look at myself in a mirror if I'd do like so .
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• France
21 Jan 08
Hey ok lol I didn't get it at first reading hehe . Well ,I did it before and I could call it youthfull mistakes hehe but now I could not do it again coz I love my gf above all .
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@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
15 Mar 08
Hi cannonball, Hey, that's a good thing, to know and recognize if you did wrong and if you felt it wasn't a good thing to do, accepting that you made a mistake and avoid doing it again. You have a great day.
@Modestah (11192)
• United States
15 Mar 08
I might have a temptation to it for an instant - but it is not entertained and it is rejected instantly as coming from the devil. my conscience could not excuse cheating.
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@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
15 Mar 08
Hi modestah, Good point, once you have something in your conscience, it is hard to get it out, and temptation can be very strong but as human, if you are stronger, you are a very admirable person. Have a happy day !!
• Canada
31 Aug 07
I would not dream of cheating. If anyone ever feels the need to cheat, they need to get out of the relationship they are already in, because their partner is not right for them. Cheating is a quick way to end a relationship.
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@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
15 Mar 08
Hi danishcanadian, That's right, if someone is thinking on doing so, why bother getting a partner at the beginning ? And is also, as you say, an automatic form of ending it, but if the relationship is suppose to end, why finishing it this way? correct? Talking is the best way.
@Hatley (164743)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Mar 08
No I can trutfully save I have never cheated and would not do so I did have the chance in college to cheat on a take home open book test but I found I already knew the answser as I had done a lot of studying so did not even take advantage of the chance to cheat. why do so its cheating yourself as you learn nothing doing this.
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
15 Mar 08
Hi Hatley, Congrats on that particular moment, you know you did good regardless on the results, and I assume you did great on that test as well. It is a very uplifting feeling when you know you did something on your own, not necessarily with someone's help, but without taking the easy way. Have a great day !!