relationship

Philippines
July 1, 2007 11:19pm CST
...i am married, got seperated, and now i have a relationship with a girl who was raped by his grandfather when she was 7, then by her father when she was 9...now her mom works abroad and lived there...now this girl told me that she had no one to turn to except me..she was desperate and grew up alone by herself...had relationships with some guys but didn't turn out good...i know for myself that i could not be a "savior" to her, that all i can play as a role is a good lover, and best friend, even though i wanted so much to be with her for our life's span...but it's keep bothering me the fact that i have a wife...even though we're separated i still believe that i've been sinning to her...i wanted to do the right thing but what about this girl who believes in me?
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@moomincat (321)
2 Jul 07
What a tangled web we weave.Playing this role is not the answer for her.You need to walk away from all of this and clear your mind. You are not happy and the three women in your life are becoming victims. Wife, daughter and mistress.
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• Philippines
2 Jul 07
....i was thinking of that too...but i don't know how to do it or even what to start with...
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2 Jul 07
I dont understand. What do you not know. This arrangement is not working nor has a future. You need to make a plan and keep to it.
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@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
Well, if you're really love her, then you can help her in some other way. You can't live together but you can see her everyday and checked her too. Just make sure that you love her than your wife and that you will accept her as a person. Okey then, your wife, if you're separeted then I am sure you have legal separation or annulment, and wait till you're free before getting married with the girl.
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• Philippines
2 Jul 07
..i feel i love her more than the love i had for my wife..we were not annuled or somewhat...we separated and just had a talk, not even a long talk to do so...we didn't even had terms...it's just that we were convince that it's not working for us(our relationship)...thanks by the way...
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