VIRGINITY...Is That A Big Deal To Love Someone???

yeah. i agree with u about that. we shouldn't deem it things important. as long as u love him/her, just do it, no matter what happened on him/her.

If I love someone than it is not going to be a big factor. I grew up very shy, so by the time I was really dating and at that time here in the US the girls I would date were older and thus not too likely to be virgins. I did date one virgin for a while and I didn't push her to lose her virginity to me. The first time should be special for anyone and mine was not as special as I would have liked, but it hasn't bothered me that much.

if a guy is mature and really loves the girl then i guess viginity is not an issue for him anmore. anyway as a woman, i still value virginity and would like to give it to a deservng man who i love and loves me back.

Gwapako_28 i wouldn't mind if my girlfriends not a virgin anymore, i mean its not an issue for me. Why? i really don't know, eversince i started to have my own thoughts i'd said to myself that i will love the person for who she is, virgin or not a virgin :)