how can you mend a broken heart?

Philippines
July 4, 2007 9:32am CST
after more than 2 years, we broke up. sometimes, it just really doesn't work out. and you just have to realize that it will just hurt you than help you :(
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8 responses
• United States
4 Jul 07
There is an old saying: "time heals all wounds" and that is all I can offer.. You must allow time to cover up the gouges created by the hurt you went through. Mixing with good friends also helps you to move on with your life. I am sorry you have gone through this and will say a prayer for your intentions;)_+
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
thank you everyone, i telly appreciate all your pieces of advice :)
@chello63 (305)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
you can easily mend a broken heart if you really want too. but firt thing you do ask god for his guidance bcoze he's the only one who can mend your heart.. pray for him and tell him that you want to heal and forgot the person who hurt you.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
4 Jul 07
By cello taping it together LOL kidding, jokes aside. I don't know if you can ever heal a broken heart. It's up to the individual to move on and if you are not willing to then you will never get over it. Life is hard and sometimes things happen for a reason which are beyond our comprehension. Give yourself time to heal, and then pick up where you left off and start living. The sooner you look forward to getting out there and enjoying yourself, meeting new people, socialising etc, sooner or later you would find someone else, or better still, keep enjoying what you do have in your life. Good luck my friend, there are plenty more fishes in the sea (as people would always tell me after breaking up with someone :))
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
5 Jul 07
You can't mend a broken heart. Only time can do that. I have had many broken hearts and the only thing that helped was the passage of time. the more days that pass I notice that my pain is not as bad and I am able to move on more easily.
@vonn1378 (706)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
There's a lot of ways to mend a broken heart. But it depends on the person on how to deal with it. And time is the best way because it helps fade the pain in our heart.
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
it's hard to mend a broken heart. it takes time and patience. sometimes it helps to go out with friends and really enjoy yourself. give yourself some time to recover and when you are ready, go out and meet other people.
• India
4 Jul 07
an emotional break up cant be mended easily by material means ..... but its a gradual process in which we relize that whatever happeneed should be left behin..and ther 's lots to look forwadrd to .......
4 Jul 07
I dont think you can mend a broken heart. A little bit of the hurt will never go away altogether, after all, its all of our experiences that make us who we are. The thing is...how you use the experience. I once came across a quote...'I have loved and lost, but hope to find such love again, for I am a better person because of that experience'. Hang in there. Every day you will find it a little easier, until one day, it will not be the first thing on your mind in the morning. If you find yourself thinking about it *choose* to think about something else. It can be done! All the best.