can you love old women/man? as a lover.

yes, my husband is 5 years older than me.

I have always seem to go for older men. But my limit is of 9 or 10yrs tho.

yes if a person is good from heart then age does'nt matters.

yeah its depends if he's 50 -60 plus.. ahh let me think of that.. but if he's just 30-40 something its fine to me...:d..

I could not be with an old man... it depends on how much older.. and if I were not married I am older than my husband.. but not by to many years.

Yes,age is just a number.Love is so much more!

I dont think so. I have this bad habit of thinking all old men are like my father and all old women are like my mother. So this is out for me.

Yaa, why not. It is possible and it has happened in our case and we are still happy. More than 20 years now and 2 kids.

sure why not

no chance we love as m senior not as in any other way .. I belive everyone the same ..

Well if you got married to someone your age and you get old together and you still love that person would you be loving a old person as a lover?

Well, I think a lot of people would consider me old, though I don't think I am. I generally like people around my own age, but I wouldn't turn someone down who was as much as 20 years older than me. The age difference is not a big deal, I feel, once you're in your mid to late 30s. Usually, by then, you have "been around the block" a few times and know who's compatible and who isn't. You also know yourself better after 30, too. So, yes, I can love an "old man".

I do not think that its really love between an elderly man or woman and someone thirty or forty years younger. I lived through my parents marriage and my dad was thirty years my mom's senior;in fact her dad,my grandpa, was only two years older than my father. Myfather treated my mom like a not very bright daughter, his love was more like that of a dad, and she endured his nasty verbal abuse for as long as my dad lived. I used to tell her to fight back but she never did. she loved him but was it love for a mate or love for afather figure. I just know that very rarely do these so called love affairs actually make happy marriages. love someone your own age and you will be much happier.