I'm sad.!!

@sbksat (355)
India
July 5, 2007 8:25am CST
I just checked out "my pending requests" and it made me real sad. I think I have atleast 30 pending. What do I do???
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@anonymili (3140)
5 Jul 07
Can I ask you to check something? The people that are pending - have you responded to any of their discussions? Have they responded to yours? Do you share any of the same interests? I have to admit that I do not accept people as friends here just because they send me a request because I work full time and have to limit how much time I spend on the site. If someone has never ever responded to my discussion and I haven't responded to any of their, why would they think we could be friends? Some people just go around randomly making friends requests in the hope that these people will add them and then go and respond to all their discussions. Friendship on a site like this is give and take - I'm not saying you are the type of person to just expect people to reply to your discussions but I don't know you. Can you say the people who are on your pending list know you? Do they know what you like or how you write here? If you can honestly say that you have asked them to be a friend with valid reasons and they still don't want to be on your friends list, then cut your losses and try elsewhere but remember, you need to be responding to other people's discussions and getting your name recognised as a quality writer too :) Good luck!
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@sbksat (355)
• India
5 Jul 07
yeah...,,thanx for the advice..
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@aidonia (4210)
• Greece
5 Jul 07
My friend(I call you friend even if you aren't at my friend list)I really find your response exactly as I would want response.I totally agree with you.I must admit that I do the mistake and except all the friend request,I feel so bad to say no ,but what a get..............many people that never care about giving even one response .I try my best with my friends but I think I'm wrong .I must clean up and keep those that actually act as friends.Many many +++++ for me not only here but at your profile's discussions too.
@seksiconnie (1173)
• Philippines
6 Jul 07
hmm, dont feel bad..other mylotters have their busy days..i just think they werent able to approve it..keep on adding friends.. :)
@aidonia (4210)
• Greece
5 Jul 07
I'm at your friend list because I accept your friend request from the first moment as I always do.I just wonder if you gonna be another person that add me as a friend without ever care about my discussions.I stop ask friends here and long time ,if you have many pending request don't worry.To have many friends not always help.
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
hey but at least am not on your pending list hehehe. Don't be sad - you're a cool person and you could easily win friends... if they don't add you well be it at least you've tried to reach out and make friends. Or maybe they are still busy and have not checked their accounts yet. Cheer up. Blessings to you.