why guys can't be trusted?

@jonaida (574)
Philippines
July 5, 2007 10:15am CST
i don't mean to offend u men out there. its just that i have observed that its easy for guys to play with other peoples feelings....hmmmmmmmm
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@bunelu (26)
• Romania
5 Jul 07
well .. not only guys but girls too cannot be trusted .. it depends on evryones character
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@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
yes, I understand it's just being in the women part my concern always goes for women which I know is biased but we can't change the fact that there are also women out there doing such things.It's just so sad to think about it.
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@majkel (38)
• Poland
5 Jul 07
For me, both men and women can't be trusted. There are much more people who would want to cheat you than does who would like to help you. I think that men DO play with other peoples feelings - the play with feelings of women. I don't think they cheat other men. If you ask me - I trust my mates more than girls I know. I guess they are just less likely to cheat other dudes...
@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
Well, it's your opinion but atleast don't close your door to some good people out there, there are still exceptions you know...
@majkel (38)
• Poland
5 Jul 07
I know. But not-trusting most of people is... safer.
@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
It's better to be safe...
@ToriaT (103)
• Canada
5 Jul 07
it is offensive to tar every man with the same brush...are some men players? Yes of course but all men absolutely not...What i find is a good guage is time...no one can keep up an act for long without the facade slipping ...so take your time in getting to know Men or women ...If he or she is a player they wont "waste" time and will scamper off...leaving you available for that Good Man that is at the next table ... ToriaT
@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
I'm sorry about being offensive, i don't mean that. It's just an observation. but of course there are still men out there who are not players and are real, it's just so sad to think that there are people who want to play with the feelings of other people.
@ToriaT (103)
• Canada
5 Jul 07
the comment was offensive ...not you ...winks...thankfully for every jerk out there ...there are at least 10 good people ...male and female...dont let the jerks scare you off people...what my mom always says live and learn it beats the hell out of dying and stagnating lol ToriaT
@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
It's ok, that's a good one from your mom. And atleast we are still here to be the good ones...lol
@rina08 (68)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
well it's not only guys that can't be trusted even girls too. I had my friends and cousin whom can't be trusted. why? hmmm.... for the simplest reason that though they already have a boyfriend but still they go out with another guy, and make their boyfriend's believe that they can be trusted. And same with my guy friends they also do it with their girlfriend's or their partners. And for that fact maybe we should not give our 100% trust to our partners so that if time comes that they will broke our trust that given to them, well.. we can just easily accept and easy to move on. right? remember this quote: "i trust u is better compliment than i love you, because you may not always trust the one you love.. but believe me, you can always love the person you trust for the rest of your life".
@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
I've learned something here, thanks
• Philippines
6 Jul 07
As we all know that men are very egoistic and animalistic. They lie, cheat and do things that they thought that would make them more "men". Men will always be men. That's very real! It depends on us women on how we will handle our men. If i were you ladies instead of nagging our men about them cheating and lying on us lets do it in positive ways. We have to see and ask ourselves why men cheats on us. After asking yourself do something about it. Maybe change for the better and one thing for sure youre men will be crazy again about you :)
@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
That's also true, think on the othe way around...Thanks!
@bowtieguy (5931)
• United States
3 Sep 07
It is not fair to judge all of us on a few personal experiences, I am not like this and would never think of treating any one like this.
@ecson45 (38)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
maybe some of us, yes! but not all...just like women too! is'nt it?