Fall in love with someone you are not attracted to

@kudeshi (529)
India
July 5, 2007 2:45pm CST
Can you fall in love with someone you are not attracted to ? Can this relationship last ?
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7 responses
@ESKARENA1 (18299)
5 Jul 07
to fall in love we must be attracted to someone at some level, of that im certain blessed be
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@Jessem (372)
• Mauritius
5 Jul 07
Its the most absurd thing i've ever heard of. Fall in love with someone you are not attracted to???? Im sure it's a joke. Isn't it?
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@321633wy (1795)
• United States
5 Jul 07
I don't think i can fall in love with some one that whom i am not attracted to at all.Although not attracted to his look at least attracted by his personality .Otherwise this relationship is not going to work.
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@Sushicook (691)
• Sweden
5 Jul 07
Falling in love is for me some sort of attraction, be it physical or mentally. I believe that you can fall in love with someone that is physically unattractive, but maybe not mentally so.
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@liyan97 (2128)
• Northern Mariana Islands
6 Jul 07
Hello there kudeshi! In order for you to fall in live with another person there must be an attraction present! It comes in the form of that little thing that made you notice that individual to begin with. In reality it is the attraction that allows you to begin the steps that will then form into a relationship. You can not have a relationship with a person if there isn’t anything about them that seems attractive to you….. There are many types of attraction; you can become attracted to a person on different levels. You can become attracted to their smile, laughter, beauty, personality or the way they carry themselves. There are a lot of things that attract us to certain individuals, although we might not look at it in that perspective. There are some relationships that have been based on the choosing of parents “fixed marriages” but even in those rare cases the individuals might not know that much about each other At first they are hesitant to accept the destiny that has been chosen for them by their parents but within time they begin to notice the little attributes of the other person and soon become attracted to one another, which leads them to have a full and beneficial marriage.
@liyan97 (2128)
• Northern Mariana Islands
14 Jul 07
Wow! Thank you for best response:)
@vicki2876 (5640)
• Canada
14 Jul 07
No way. I met this great guy who would give me the world if he could. I really liked him too and we got along great. Problem was I wasn't attracted to him. We dated and even got engaged but I never wanted to go there with him. I always put it off until I had to. I really tried to let that go and make it work but couldn't. It hurt so much to let him go but I wasn't being fair to him. We are now still after 12 years very best of friends but we couldn't be more than that and both happy. Vicki
@micaella (396)
• Philippines
6 Jul 07
Lol, NO, No, and a big NO!