should you get married if you have a kid?

United States
October 25, 2006 12:26am CST
if you have a kid with someone should you marry them or not?
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• United States
25 Oct 06
HELL NO!!!! i dont think any 1 should marry just because they got pregnet... you should only marry for love...... cause the love is whats going to get you both through all them hard times ahead.. AND TRUST ME THEY ARE GOING TO BE SOME HARD TIMES..... i am a father of 7 married 3 times . the last time was for love and nothing else....... and this is the 1 that has lasted ... the 1st two marriages where her and i trying to do what we thought was the right thing
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• United States
25 Oct 06
very cute picture mine is already out!
@pankaj911 (409)
• India
25 Oct 06
just for tht reason alone?? NO!
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@MrsFrizzle (1964)
• United States
25 Oct 06
If you love them, If you want to marry them. Not just because you have a kid with them.
@Syam4u (307)
• India
25 Oct 06
hi dear, i dont think marriage itself is so nessasary... its just a problem of belif.. if u belife him u should live with him if not whats the meaning of marriage...
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@sbeauty (5871)
• United States
25 Oct 06
You should only marry them if you feel there is a future for your relationship. My stepdaughter had two children with a man and lived with him for years. Finally she gave in to pressure and married him. The marriage didn't last 2 years.
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@vbembot (750)
• Philippines
25 Oct 06
its your choice. nobody can answer that but yourself. if you want commitment then go on but having a child is no reason not you getting married. unless you have been married to someone before. that is adultery
• United States
25 Oct 06
You should marry someone, it doesn't have to be the parent of the kid.
• United States
25 Oct 06
you would think the answer would be yes...but it's no...the only reason there should EVER be a marriage is if two people love each other..in the end it will go badly and you will put your child(ren) thru unnecessary hell... i know i've been there.