Always a failure, never a winner...how to handle pain.

Hey, by the way, did you hear the song "Win" from Bryan McKnight? It really fits you discussion. Here's the part. This might be the chorus. Never give up, never give in Never let a ray of doubt slip in And if I fail, I'll never fade Just get up and try again ~mar

It's hard on the first part. Well, vision is important. You have to see what is life beyond - success. Failures can never be made as a hindrance of not moving forward, it is just of part of life, the ups and downs of life. So, "there is a light at the end of the tunnel". ~mar

just like you said there is always a light at the end of every tunnel,me too i beleive in that, in which it keep me going and when i stumble i always get up, never give up, for i also beleive when there is life there is still hope.

It is really hard to fail at first because all of us wants to win. But in my point of view one should take it as a challenge to be successful. Once you fail you will have to learn from it.

Hi, I posted a similar discussion asking Mylotters about failure. For me I do not believe in failure...because if you learned something from the experience it wasn't a failure. We all have to learn lessons in life and wake up to the cause and effect of the choices we make. Make different choices...you will have different outcomes. If you drop the ball along the way..who cares...pick it up and start over. All great inventors 'failed' many times before they had great success. We all have to keep on keeping on until we arrive where we want to be. Repeating the same patterns just means the lessons aren't being learned. You know the phrase...try, try, try again...sooner or later success will come if you don't give up! I know from experience...I've been in both places. Perseverence is the key along with believing in yourself and not letting the opinions of others drag you down!