this girl...

@mgmagana (3621)
United States
July 10, 2007 10:14am CST
on cafemom this girl basically had the nerve to say b/c her man is a military man his job is harder than my hubby's and i have no right to talk about the heat my man works in! i'm sorry but my man works his butt off everyday in 100 degree plus heat! her man chose to be in the military, yeah i'm grateful for all the troops but that does not make any body elses husbands better than mine! then she says how she's not trying to start an argument, well when u put down my husbands job that he goes to everyday sometimes working 70 plus hrs. in the heat then yeah, u started ur own war b*tch!
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@Thoroughrob (11750)
• United States
10 Jul 07
It was uncalled for her to make that comment to you, I am sure she is just upset knowing her husband is having to work in 100 degree plus temps. She is making sure that everyone realized the condition that they are working in. I would take it pretty lightly. She should have put it another way and not sounded like she was putting your husbands job down. Some people just speak without thinking of how it is going to sound.
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@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
10 Jul 07
yeah then she got upset when someone else said her marine husband is higher ranked then her air force husband so quit bragging and putting other people's husbands jobs down! then that girl became a hypocrite and told the other girl not to be saying her husband is better b/c he's in the marine corp.
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@chertsy (3804)
• United States
11 Jul 07
I had to reply to this one, because it made me laugh. I think before these wives should be saying who's higher ranking, should look for there husband's blue jacket manual that has the ranks for all branches then brag, lol. I'm only familar with the Navy, because I'm prior Navy and was married to a Sailor. I'm slowly learning the Army rank since the guard follows it. A lot of the Army stuff is weird and stupid. I know what your talking about when you say E-1 all the way up, but with the actual name, I'm clueless.
• Canada
10 Jul 07
We all work hard at our jobs for many reason no one persons job is any harder than others adn liek you say he choose his career in the military we all have the choice of jobs we wanna do i think she should step back and really look at things. I am thankful of peopel who choose to serve there country this way and proud of them but now you have to look at the politicians that put them in places they do nto belong.
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
10 Jul 07
i know, that's how i feel, no one person's job is more important than anothers unless they're gonna pay my bills!
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• Canada
10 Jul 07
That is right he choose to severe in the military whose wages are paid by the tax payer so think it is all fair And how a person shooses to pay there bills or earn a living is there buisness.
@secretbear (19464)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
that's right. she doesn't have any right to look down on your husband's job. if every husband is working they're azz out in whatever kind of work they have,then, the kind of work doesn't matter. what matters is that they are all working hard to provide for their wife and children. ^__^
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
20 Jul 07
yup, i agree! I say she shouldn't say anything unless she's paying my bills! ♥
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
So sorry to hear that. Some people can just be so self-righteous at time that they think the whole world revolves around them and their family. No one can really say who works harder. And really, tolerance of the heat varies from person to person. Don't you just wish that moms were more supportive instead of competitive?
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
17 Jul 07
yes, i do! i wish they were more supportive and that's wut cafe mom is supposed to be about!
@gabs8513 (48712)
• United Kingdom
15 Jul 07
Sweetie don't let her get to you ok she is looking for trouble and being one heartless Person, as far as I am concerned all the Military works hard there is no difference between them apart from Rank and even that makes no different really and yes I am an ex Army Wife myself My Ex Husband was in the Army so I know all about it, my Step Dad was Army So just ignore her and let her make herself look a fool
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
15 Jul 07
thanks gabs, i got heated a little, but after i got over it, i'm not going to let her get to me! otherwise she'll accomplish what she wanted to.
• United States
11 Jul 07
Oh no she didn't! I don't know where she gets off thinking that. I'm right there with you. My man works out in the heat up on a 24 ft ladder painting all day. He comes home after a 12 hour day looking so drained and has what the call rung feet from the ladder. I don't think anyone should judge that one person's job is harder than someone else's, especially when that person hasn't done either job. I don't blame you for being upset. Who is she, God?!? You have a right to talk all you want to. The nerve of some people!
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
11 Jul 07
yup that's how i feel no one should judge my husbands job unless they're gonna pay my bills!
@icequeen (2841)
• Canada
10 Jul 07
I completely understand your frustration...but I wouldn't get too upset. I am sure we all think our boyfriends/husbands are great...lol. I do understand how you feel. My boyfriend also works very hard sometimes in extreme weather. He is now a tilesetter and the job can be very demanding. You know what your hubby does and that is all that matters...
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
11 Jul 07
my hubby installs heating and a/c and most of his work is done in the attics of homes where there is no air! i let it go now, but i was upset earlier!
• United States
10 Jul 07
You go girl mgmagana. That is not right that she is comparing your hubby. Because all man work in harder then most. Her husband chose to be in the military. People have to be rude about it. No one needs to be fighting over your hubby's work. Because no matter what it is not going to solve anything.
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
10 Jul 07
yup if she's gonna pay my bills then she can talk about wut he does for a living, but she doesn't so she has no right!
@snoopy04 (718)
• United States
10 Jul 07
I would have gotton upset to. My husband works very hard and he puts in alot of overtime so I can be a stay at home mom. I commend the men and women that go into the military but I would never say that their job is harder than someone elses. I think once you are in the military all that power goes to head. Dont worry though what you did was only natural and I would have done the same thing.
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
10 Jul 07
thank u, i feel the same way, my husband didn't choose to go to the military he chose to stay home and work his but off and take care of us so i can me a SAHM and take care of my kids too, and for someone to say his job is bubcuss, is ridiculous and offending!
@tep91005 (375)
• United States
10 Jul 07
Go girl. I agree...there is alot of military wifes out there that think their husbands are Gods because of what they do, not only that, but they also feel they are Goddesses for that reason alone. I was a friend to a military wife and she hated other military wives because most felt incredibly entitled when it was their husbands doing all the work. By the way what is cafemom?
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
10 Jul 07
cafemom is a forum for moms u don't get paid but it's kinda drama!