What kind of friend ARE you?

@sandwedge (1341)
Malaysia
July 11, 2007 3:25am CST
i read a discussion by a 22 year old girl from the phillipines that i cannot comprehend. Her firend apologised to her but she continue dragging her friend's issue in the public and yet try to sound concern about her friend? If some one says sorry, do you continue to tell people about her "evil" and do laundry in the public?
2 responses
@jenius (131)
• United States
11 Jul 07
First off you got me curious so had to check out the discussion you are referring to. The answer your question no I would not air personal issues about a friend in such a public manner. I do find it amusing that this girl keeps calling people narrow minded when she herself drew conconclusions from simply looking at a pic before knowing the truth. I realize her topic was supposed to be centered on honesty but, still can't help come up with the same reaction others had. Sexuality is/should be very private and is no ones business and perhaps that was the reason for lying in the first place. I am female and have many close female friends I would never dream of asking them such questions nor would they ask me. Seems to me she should broaden her mind and grow up....I'm sure she'll comment on this since she is so pricly to critisism.
@jenius (131)
• United States
11 Jul 07
* prickly....I do know how to spell it's my typing that leaves a lot to be desired...lol
@sandwedge (1341)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 07
i thought it was 'pricely' .. LOL! no matter that is the intention, dragging someones issue in public is just wrong. it is like gossiping in guise of church committee meeting...which happens alot!
@SunDog (108)
• Latvia
13 Jul 07
if my friend says sorry for whatever fault she did, i will forgive and thats the end of the issue. if someone apologise, why would anyone wants to keep harping about the issue unless they are just hypocrites where they accept the apology but continue to spit out hatred. as to your question, "do you continue" i will say NO. and the other question "what kind of friend ARE you". i am a forgive and forget. i will never backstab anyone once they apologise for their wrong doing. that would be plain stupid.