the one who loves you or the one you love?

@stacyv81 (5906)
United States
July 14, 2007 10:11am CST
which one is more practical? Which one would you chose? Why cant they be the same? I believe the bible says to be with the one who loves you, not the one you love, I wonder why this is? What are your thoughts? Comments? Opinions?
4 responses
@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
It would be much better if both have love towards one another, every relationships should have the same treatment and how much they value each other's love...because I believe, every good relationships starts from loving your other half not just only one of you will do his/her part but it should be the two people involved.
@DanaMark (807)
• United States
15 Jul 07
I don't recall the Bible saying anything about being with one who loves you, not one you love. That doesn't sound biblical to me, since God wants us to love everyone. If you are talking about a man and women in a lifelong relationship, I think love has to go both ways. It won't work if only one has love for the other. And why would someone want to be in such a relationship?
@smileonstar (4014)
• United States
14 Jul 07
well, these two words are not the same. it is way different... the one who loves you mean he/she loves you and he/she is really can do anything just for you... however, the one you love mean you love he/she but he/she doesn't love you. So, you rather stay with someone that doesn't love you? and not be with the one who loves you? the bible is right cuz we should to stay with someone that loves you not the one that doesn't love you. Other way, you can stay with the one that love and you love him/her back, then it will be more meaning. Im sorry if I dont give you a good explanation but this is how it works. I wish you good luck
@smileonstar (4014)
• United States
14 Jul 07
well, these two words are not the same. it is way different... the one who loves you mean he/she loves you and he/she is really can do anything just for you... however, the one you love mean you love he/she but he/she doesn't love you. So you rather stay with someone that doesn't love you not the one who loves you? the bible right cuz we have to stay with someone that love you not the one that doesn't love you. Other way, you can stay with the one that love and you love him/her back, then it will be more meaning. Im sorry if I dont give you a good explanation but this is how it works. I wish you good luck