What should I do?

United States
July 14, 2007 5:03pm CST
I am bored, my boyfriend has left me for another woman, and I have nothing to do... I need some suggestions. I have no clean pants at the moment. Oh, and I have no friends so that's not an option. THANKS.
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@Calais (10900)
• Australia
14 Jul 07
Sorry to hear about that.....You know that you can sit there and talk to us, you have friends here...
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• United States
14 Jul 07
Yes, Calais, you are my one true friend. Thank you.
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@Calais (10900)
• Australia
14 Jul 07
No worries...Cheers..Hope you feel better soon.
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@mummymo (23707)
14 Jul 07
Now Calais that is such good advice I wish I had thought of that one! Hugs to you both! xxxx
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@Jennifer21 (2476)
• United States
14 Jul 07
I too become very bored at times. That is the main reason I come to mylot:P I also enjoy to sit and watch a good movie. Or how about throwing on a skirt, if you have no clean pants, and going to the bar, or out on the town. You look pretty, I bet you could find a new man in no time.
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• United States
14 Jul 07
Yeah, that sounds good, too bad I haven't shaved my legs in like 4 months so if I was to wear a skirt, they may think I am a crossdresser. Maybe that's why he left me....
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• United States
20 Jul 07
Enjoy yourself wooitsm . . .
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@deebomb (15322)
• United States
14 Jul 07
What did you do before the boyfriend? Get out and go to a park go to a museum Go to a hospital and do some volunteer work Oh before you do go wash your pants.
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• United States
14 Jul 07
We don't have a museum here because I live in the country and all we have are corn fields.
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• United States
18 Jul 07
You could go make a crop circle.
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• Philippines
14 Jul 07
hello wooitsmolly. You do what you love most. Work or spend time with your family. I'm sorry about that boyfriend of yours- bad boyfriend. Hugs to you.
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• United States
14 Jul 07
Thank you for the hug. Will you be my boyfriend, sick4muzick?
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• Philippines
19 Jul 07
Awww if that were at all possible Molly sweetheart I'd gladly be. ;) I would like to go on a night out with you girls though, mummymo and all. Havent done that in a long time. Cheer up!
• United States
14 Jul 07
I have these same feelings like you. I have no job, no money, and friends. When the last guy ask me out, I found out he had been married with three children and later filed for a divorce. I was dumped by him because I was laid off on my last job. What I do for free time is just use what I have left, and maybe good things will soon come.
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• United States
14 Jul 07
You could find games to play online or find other ways to make money online (point & survey sites). You could go lay outside and read a book. You could clean the house *hehe*
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@mummymo (23707)
14 Jul 07
You're single and bored, no clean pants? It's a Saturday night, you are young, single and stunning, sling on a dress or a skirt and get out there and party sweetheart - I wish I could still do that! xxx
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• United States
14 Jul 07
mummymo, let's hit the town together. We could wear matching outfits!
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@mummymo (23707)
15 Jul 07
Molly sweets you have no idea how much I would love to do that! As soon as my back improves I will hold you to it as long as you don't mind an old frump tagging along! lol xxx
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@cyntrow (8524)
• United States
15 Jul 07
I'd take you out any day, Woo. And we'll drag mommymoo along with us. we'll have bunch of fun.
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@jbrooks0127 (2326)
• United States
15 Jul 07
Are you serious? Your boyfriend just left you and your bored? You have no clean pants and no friends so your bored? Hmmmmm. Tell us the truth woo, what is eally going on?
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• United States
15 Jul 07
jbrooks, really.. my boyfriend left me (to go to work, sometimes I confuse his job at Wendy's for a girl named Wendy) and I was bored. I had no clean pants (still don't) and no friends here (they all moved away). That is the truth.
@marciascott (25554)
• United States
15 Jul 07
As the saying goes there are too many fish in the Sea. Now you seem like a nice looking girl, there is somebody for everybody. I know it is hard trying to meet the right person.
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• United States
16 Jul 07
Ah... understanding comes in the explaination. I assumed he left you for good.....crazy if he were to do that.....so I could not understand how you could be so casual about it. I understand now. Thank you. I hope you found something to do.
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@Eskimo (2317)
20 Jul 07
Of course you have friends here, you are always welcome to give me a pat on the head, (its amazing how theraputic that is), and of course I'll always give you a big lick if I meet you. Woof!! Woof!!
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• United States
20 Jul 07
Oh Eskimo... I don't know you like that yet!
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@Eskimo (2317)
20 Jul 07
They always say that boyfriends come and go but a dog is for life, and no matter how down you feel at the moment, just having a dog looking up to you should make you feel good, even if it's just a virtual MyLot canine friend.
@chileman (969)
• Australia
18 Jul 07
Your boyfriend left you, when did he leave you? Sorry to hear you are so down, hopefully some of us here can cheer you up. Chin up, there is always a brighter day around the corner!
• United States
18 Jul 07
My boyfriend did not leave me, fortunately. Just a misunderstanding here on mylot. He was at work and I got bored... I didn't mean "another woman" oooooops
@chileman (969)
• Australia
18 Jul 07
Hahahaha, ooooops alright...well that is good news then :)
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• United States
18 Jul 07
Geez - Made it to the 11th page of responses, & - well, he does have to earn his money to survive, because it's uusally: No money No honey so he's got to work to earn his money. I also love the way that the MyLot guidelines mention to read all the responses first, but very few did just that. If someone happens to stumble upon my reply, they'll probably be wondering what the heck I was thinking when posting this, but once they get to this paragraph, ... I'd LOVE to see the looks on their faces.
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• United States
18 Jul 07
:P I didn't realize I would get so many responses on such a non-serious post! I was simply asking what I should do that night because I was bored... Ah well. I doubt anyone will read this either!
• United States
18 Jul 07
I'm getting a chuckle out of the post that followed mine. It just verified the truth in what I was saying. Actually, something that I somehow left out of my original posting: Just hang in there & be patient becayse I'm sure he's looking forwards to the end of his shift for a good reason -- You ...
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@homecafe (24)
• Philippines
15 Jul 07
sorry to hear that, I guess you just have to pray hard and w8 for the right man to come along and besides you have us,always willing to give you helping hand:)have a nice day!!
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• United States
15 Jul 07
homecafe, you came along. Are you the right man?
• Philippines
15 Jul 07
hehehehhe!!I can if you want to hehehee:)
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15 Jul 07
i have literally jus broken up with my girlfriend. and currently i am staying at my dads house and i have no1 here tht i no. i have been on mylot now for 5 hours seeing if ne1 else is feeling the same. and its now 2am here in england. i think that u need to go out for a drink go meet someone to chat to. what im going to do tomorow is join a gym so i can hopefully meet people. i am also tomorow night going to go out for a drink to see if i can meet people. no matter what age they are. jus to talk. mayb get friendly with them. i hop this helps. ps. dnt get completely wasted. just have a few confidence builders. i recommend a few double vodka redbulls. sit at the bar and start a conversation. see if ther regulars. maybe meet up with them again. whether there male/female/single/married etc. just be friendly
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• United States
15 Jul 07
sexyliamtivey, will you go to the bar with me. I can't afford the drinks myself. Plus we can be friends.
15 Jul 07
i would come to the bar with you. ur feeling wot i am rite nw. but im in england. i would buy u a few drinks. id be happy to. but ur in michigan. i cant get there. sorry. ur im michigan. and i cant afford to get there. i would be happy to if i could. if u have msn u can add me. my address is sexyliamtivey@hotmail.com we can talk an be friends. xx
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@gewcew23 (8011)
• United States
14 Jul 07
Hold on Molly, hold on just one minute. First get you some clean pants, or shorts, or something. Your are 21 I do believe, you have nothing to be bored about. Look all around you there has to be something you can do. Even if you do not the money there is plenty of thing for you to do for free. Go bird watching, go on a picnic by yourself(awesome way to meet someone), or go to the mail even if you do not have any money(awesome way to meet someone).
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• United States
14 Jul 07
We don't have a mall in town because I live in a tiny little city, but I guess I could go to Walmart instead.
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@gewcew23 (8011)
• United States
15 Jul 07
I meet by husband at a Wal-Mart, maybe HUH?
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@urbandekay (18312)
15 Jul 07
Get on a plane and just go somewhere! all the best urban
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@urbandekay (18312)
16 Jul 07
Missed the bit about no clean pants, hmmm, what's that got to do with anything? Did your bf usually do your laundry? All the best urban
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@amitmeer (97)
• India
15 Jul 07
boyfriend.. thats in ur case.. the same thing.. but girlfriend in my case.. what do u suggest me.. then.. ha ha.. life is to forget something.. and to move ahead..
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@latsmom (824)
15 Jul 07
Heres a great site, where you can speak to people from all over the world. I am on there too same name as on here, give it a try, you can specify if you want to find love or just freindship, if nothing else there are some lovely people on tehre and you will never be short of a chat. www.plentyoffish.com
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@Zorrogirl (1481)
• South Africa
15 Jul 07
oh i know how you feel. my hubby works most nights plus his day jobs. im often alone and dont have any friends either. i dont drink so bars are a no-no. why dont you write a really hot book for mills and boon or any such publisher. make it really soppy. if you can write here, you can do it. i have started with one as well.
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• United States
15 Jul 07
That is a great idea, Zorrogirl. You will be my main character.
@Stiffler07 (1356)
• United States
14 Jul 07
It's best that you found out what kind of a man he is, while he was only your boyfriend. It's alot better then you being married. I know it still hurts, however time will heal all wounds. So, this was Gods way of opening your eyes. All things that are done in the dark, will always come to light! ..... Read a good book, that always works for me. If not,then go for a long walk. Whatever you do, don't look back, don't ever give him that power over you. You're a good looking woman who will not have a problem finding someone else, just take it slow & when you're ready get right back out on the market .... LOL:-)
• United States
14 Jul 07
I am starting to feel bad that I said he left me for another woman when I meant to say he is at work :P Just trying to pass the time until he comes home and takes me out to the bar....... :P Thanks for the kind words none the less! (That goes to everyone..)
@senthil2k (1501)
• India
20 Jul 07
Cheer up. You have a lot of friends like me in Mylot here and there should be no reason for you to get bored. Come and discuss with us all. If your boy friend has left you, ignore him and start a fresh life for you with a better one. When God closes a door, it means there is a better door waiting for us somewhere to be opened by Him. Cheer up.
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@Norstar (695)
• India
20 Jul 07
Sorry to hear about your loss. Actually it is his loss. You are young, pretty and clever. You would get plenty of good guys. You have to have patience to get good things. See, you made this guy your boyfriend in a hurry and now you know that he was not worth it. Start with things that are necessary: clean your pants, do some exercise/ Yoga and do not indulge in self pity. Wait for some time to get a good boyfriend. I bet you would get a good boyfriend but you have to identify him and do not be in a hurry. All the best and tell me when you get a good boyfriend.