i need help.

the only thing you can do to get over your ex, is to get yourself busy. if the relationship is over then you need to move on and do things that are going to get your mind of the past. just know that this relationship is over for a reason and now you need to get yourself busy doing something else rather then sitting around thinking about your ex. time heals all wounds my friend

Hello sexyliamtivey & WELCOME to Mylot! I wish I could tell you that all you had to do was wake up tomorrow and you will no longer feel the hurt, but I can’t! there is nothing that you can do at this point but make it thru the day, knowing that tomorrow will bring a brighter day. I know that you must feel really hut right now, but you have to let go of her. If you keep hanging on to something that is no longer there you will never heal. Even after you let go you will not be completely healed. If you adored her as you say, then she will always be apart of you thru out your life. If she hurt you then I feel that you have to let go and accept that it is over, then and only the will you be able to allow yourself t heal. Like everything else in this world only time will tell how long it would take you to heal. In a situation like this it is best if you find comfort in friends, try and get out and enjoy yourself as you once did alone. In a sense you are not alone, because we Mylot members will always be here to help you get thru this, all you have to do is post! Good luck, I hope you feel better soon!