My dear sister passed away

iloveyou sister - my dear sis Neren
@vonne28th (1494)
Philippines
July 15, 2007 7:29pm CST
The greatest pain and trials comes in my family when my sister died last Saturday night from her illness. We were so sad and i can't still help myself crying a lot. My eyes are still swelling. I and my siter shared the same room and i always think of her a lot. But i am still thankful that she is no longer experience any pains and hardships in life. I opened it here on mylot coz i just want to express and shared my feelings right now and just to lighten my loads.
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@mymytri (2032)
• India
16 Jul 07
I am so sorry to hear this vonne.I know how hard it is to digest when one of close family member who shares evrything with us has passed away.I am sure time will heal your family and to accept this turth.Just think everyone of us have to pass oneday and she is earlier.Cheer up...
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
We shared a lots of plans together when we grow old. But it will never be happen,i will just have to be strong and thank God that she may not be able to experience hardships and pains again. I just can't forget the last time i saw her,i felt like i am also dying..
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@angela2006 (1846)
• China
16 Jul 07
I am sorry to hear that.actually as you said,your sister is lucky not endure any painess,if she can live longer but needs to stand painess,then which weighter?
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
Yes,i think it would be better, than she and my family are still experiencing pain. But when i always see my mom crying and crying,it makes me feel like dying.
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@Cassy1976 (796)
• Australia
16 Jul 07
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. As you said thankfully she is no longer in pain, I hope that she is in heaven right now doing something that she really enjoyed doing at some stage in her life! RIP
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
I know she is now happy where she is right now,sleeping in peace. I know that we will meet someday in heaven.
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@rsa101 (14877)
• Quezon City, Philippines
16 Jul 07
My condolences to you and your family. I know its pretty hard to lose a love ones but I guess you're right at least you know that she is free of pains and hardship that she is encountering here. I am pretty sure time will heal your heart. Life has to move on as they say it. She will be with her Creator and you shouldn't worry at all coz she's safe where she is right now.
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
I just want to calm myself and think that it's better that it happened than seeing her like dying every time she is having seizures. But life must be go and accept the truth as what you have said coz we can't get back to the past. I appreciated your condolence.
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@coffeeshot (3786)
• Australia
16 Jul 07
Firstly, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Sisters are very close and it must be horrible for you right now. Always remember that she's with you and will always look over you. I was watching Sylvia Brown on TV this morning and she said that everyone mourns in a different way, so If you want to cry so much that your eyes hurt then that's fine. Remember the good times and know that every day that passes is bringing you one day closer to being together again. xo
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
I really don't know how to face the future without her. I do have a lots of plans for us. She said to me before that she will be the one to design my own house because she is studied architecture and about to graduate this year,but because of what happened,this will be no longer happend.
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@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
Ohh, i dunno what to say. Really, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. This is a big loss really. I'm praying to God to give you more strength in facing these hardship u-r experiencing right now. In no time for sure u'll be able to overcome this loneliness. We your myLot friends will help you. Take care now.
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
Everytime i saw my mom crying,i felt that my heart is gripping and i felt that i can't breathe anymore. But i am still hoping time would help us overcome this. I am just so thankful for all of you here on mylot who's giving me inspirations to overcome and accept the truth. Thanks a lot again to you anjoks. Godbless you always.
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@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
Ohhh i know how u badly feel vonne. My fave aunt just passed away couple of weeks ago. I'm carrying the weight on my shoulders too. You are not alone my friend... I know you can deal with that. Have faith, have strength. I know its not that easy but we must and have to have that.. Take care really.
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@terri0824 (4991)
• United States
19 Jul 07
I am so sorry to hear of your loss of your sister. Just rejoice in the good memories that you both shared and that will carry you through your pain and bring healing for you.
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
I am just hoping that the pain in my heart will soon be healed and go on with my life. But still the happy memories will always be with me and my family. Thanks a lot terrie for your concern. Godbless you!
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@Modestah (11192)
• United States
17 Jul 07
Dear Yvonne, I am terribly sorrowed for your loss and grief. I have never had a sister so can only imagine what a special bond that is to have. I pray you both, Neren and yourself, peace.
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
We really had a special bondings. I can tell her all my problems and secrets. She means a lot to me. Thanks for your prayer. It is very much appreciated. Godbless you!
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@anine19 (134)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
i am very sorry to hear that, but let's just be thankful for she's now happy. and, she will be sad seeing you very sad. you, your sister and ur fam will be in my prayers...
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
I and my family slowly accepts that she will not be with us anymore. But her memories will always be remembered. I am still coping right now but i was so thankful for your prayers. Thanks a lot. God bless you.
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16 Jul 07
Sorry for the loss, I hope you can overcome this incident and move on with your life. I know how it feels to lose a loved one as a lost one of my childhood friends a couple of years ago. Its just something that's not in our control and there's nothing we can do to stop it.
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
Yes,losing someone you truly love and cherish is hardly unacceptable truth. But we must have to accept it. It's our Lord's decision. He knows everything. Thanks a lot.
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@yamskee (830)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
im sorry for what happened.. i just hope that your sister will rest in peace, and always remember that shes not far from you, i believe that even if she no longer physically there the memories that you had with her will make you strong and a better person..
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
She will never be far from us. In our hearts and memories. We loved her a lot. We will be a better person. Thanks a lot yamskee.
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• Philippines
16 Jul 07
I am so sorry to hear about what happened to your dear sister. I could understand the feeling. But wherever she is now, she's happier. You are right. There is no more pain and sufferings in where she is. Lets just be thankful top the Lord that she has now transfered to a better life.
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
I know that we will going to meet her very soon from now. ANd i can't hardly wait for that. I always thanked God whatever happened and is happening to our lives. Thanks a lot
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• Saudi Arabia
16 Jul 07
A philospher once said "the moment we are born, it is also the moment that we start dying." I know how difficult it is to loose someone that you love so much. I too lost my youngest brother, Jimmy, a few years ago and I could still vividly remember the angst and the pain that we all in the family felt. I can only emphatize with you in your moment of grief but I do hope that you find solace in the fact that your sister is no longer suffering. This prayer I offer to you: Lord, Grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change, the courage to change the things that I can, and the wisdom to know the difference, Amen. Vonne, always remember that it is only when we learn to accept things as they become that we are able to move on.
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
I am so sorry to know that you also lost your younger brother. I know it is so much hard but we should have to move on for our good. And thanks for your encouraging message and for the prayer. It really touches me. Thanks and Godbless.
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@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
I am sorry for your loss. Sisters are really important in our lives and family esp that you are close. It's good that you realize how thankful you are that she is no longer suffering in pain. God has a pupose in everything that happens to our lives. He is also our greatest comfort in times like these.
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
I am just getting my stregth now from the Lord and from my family. I know she is happy where she is right now. I just have to think that she's just sleeping. Thanks a lot
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@derek_a (10902)
16 Jul 07
I am so very sorry to learn of your loss and my thoughts are with you. I hope the sharing helps you deal with your grief. Words can be just inadequate at times such as this, but having gone through bereavements myself, I know how sharing can help :-)
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
Yes,you guys really helps lighten my grief and i really appreciated it. Thanks a lot derek.
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16 Jul 07
don feel sad. a peson who takes birth has to leave his soul one or the other day .. we should accept that..... if u start cryin who wil look after ur parents. u should be stong enough to face such circumstances......
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
But she was too young to leave us. And you are right,i should be very strong for my family. Thanks a lot
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@Razzles (391)
• United States
16 Jul 07
I am sorry to hear about your sister. She may be gone, but the bond that you both shared will never die. It is good that you are crying instead of keeping everything inside. Your sister will never be in pain again and that in itself is a blessing. The healing process will fade, but never completely disappear. Just keep your spirits high, and keep the memory alive.
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
Our bondings will always be in my heart forever. She will never be in pain and sufferings again but i'm surely we will miss her a lot. Thanks Razzles.
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• Philippines
16 Jul 07
i'm sorry, my friend... I know how it feels to loose a love one...I pray that you and your family will recover fast. God bless you!
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
We hope too! though it really hurts. Thanks a lot yummydudes for your prayers and concern.
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@jwiz168 (140)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
Chin up . You'll be happy if you see there are a lot of angels beside her. I would offer prayers for her. Condolence and move on.
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
Thanks a lot jwiz168! i badly need your prayers to cheer me up coz i really feeling down. Thanks again.
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@youdontsay (3503)
• United States
16 Jul 07
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Please don't think you must stop crying when you feel like it. Grief is normal and healthy and lasts as long as it needs to. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you heal.
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
I think my eyes are dried up with tears but still my heart and soul is crying. Thank you so much for your thoughts and prayers. It is very much appreciated.
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