Who are the worst cheaters? Women or men?

@latsmom (824)
July 17, 2007 5:37pm CST
There has been a lot of controversy among people saying that women have now become the new man, going out, getting drunk adn having one night stands, rather than settling down into relationships. I have to say that one night stands are not for me adn I am currently single and have been for 2 years after splitting up from an 8 year relationship. I woudl love to know your views on this, who do you think are the worst cheaters, one night standers? Who are the biggest heartbreakers? Women or Men? Or do you think we are both as bad as each other. I would love to hear your views on this.
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10 responses
• Sweden
17 Jul 07
Both genders are as bad. The type of people I see as the worst cheaters are the ones who pretends to be single and looking for a relationship, when they're in fact seeing/living with/engaged/married with someone else and/or are just looking for a one night stand.
@latsmom (824)
23 Jul 07
I agree, i think that if people were honest about what they wanted then people would be happier and would not end up hurt by a relationship, fling based on lies.
• Canada
21 Apr 08
i agree
@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
8 Jun 09
In my opinion, both, man and woman can cheat if they have a problem with morality. I am one who acuse all times cheaters, i like honest people, but people are not same, they are different, and they act different. But seems that man cheat a lot, they like to change partners, and lie .
@latsmom (824)
8 Jun 09
I agree, they are both as bad. It is a shame that honesty is such a problem. I think people shoudl be honest about what they want and talk more, that would definately help.
@dopey22girl (3326)
• United States
25 Jul 07
I still think men cheat more than women do. But this is not to say that I don't think women cheat! Because I know for a fact they do! I am not trying to be sexist at all, but I still think the percentage of men that cheat is higher than women, but I do agree that women are catching up quickly!
@maya24 (10)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 07
i agree with you, way to go girl
• Indonesia
18 Jul 07
i think both gender are about the same. different is to me women can hide it better than men.From my experience, i've been cheated by my ex boyf and i figure it out in just 3 days. Meanwhile now with my new one i cheating on him for 1 year and he still doesn't know bout it (oopps!). But i've never been in one night stands. it just isn't me!
@latsmom (824)
23 Jul 07
I agree taht women are better at hiding it, especially those who are at home all teh time and the men are the ones who are working long hours or away from home, but I definately agree taht both genders are as bad as each other.
@men82in (1270)
• India
18 Jul 07
Worst in the sense men only. But commercially screening as workers it will be women.
@latsmom (824)
23 Jul 07
I am grateful for your opinion, who knows what the real answer is hey?
• Canada
21 Apr 08
i think both sexes are equally potential of cheating, its not a matter of sexes, its a matter of morals.... am no better etiher, i made my mistakes, confessed them, learned from them and thank the lord am still with my man.
@rexiemay (402)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
hi latsmom! even though i know more guys who cheats than women, i still believe that gender doesnt have anything to do with who cheats more. it depends on how a person perceives what a relationship shoould. it is how a person defines commitments. women who go out and discover their sexuality are only discovering what they have and what they can do. im very sure that guys also do that. i dont think that we should judge a person by his/her sexuality. all of us are bad or good or just confused. thank you.
• India
23 Mar 08
in todays' world ,you can not blame one gender as the cheater number one. you should go by your personal experience and make all judgements about persons who you come across on your personal thinking.both are glove in hands in major cases of cheating ,but men do it on their prowess of manlyness...
• India
23 Mar 08
in todays' world ,you can not blame one gender as the cheater number one. you should go by your personal experience and make all judgements about persons who you come across on your personal thinking.both are glove in hands in major cases of cheating ,but men do it on their prowess of manlyness...
@maya24 (10)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 07
i think men are still have the best record for cheating. Because usually women became a one night stander or drunker mostly because they've been hurt by men. So that mostly they don't care about their reputation and dignity in society. But it's just for women who hasn't got believe in God, Because God is fair and i believe in karma.