if your roomate is always keep silent~what would u do?

Hi! Welcome to mylot! Well, I would like to add here that people are different not interms of face beauty but also in terms of their behavior, their nature, their attitude and likewise. What I feel about your roomate is that she is of silent nature and keeps quite, not due to her habit but this would possibly be her nature too. But what I believe is that if you want to make her change, share your feelings with her, give her company or invite your friends to your room to make some fun and ask her to participate. Her shy nature would gradually be off. Also you may enquire her past life, her area of interest too. Share common interests with each other ¤¤¤¤¤ Thanks!

We are all different. Some like to chat, some are reserved and on their guard. Don't expect your roommate to behave like your other friends. Just wait a bit and give open smiles and say 'Hullo' without any hangup. YOU HAVE NOT DONE ANYTHING WRONG I AM SURE. THIS WILL BE PROVED IF SHE GIVES A SMILE BACK TO YOU. A SMILE A DAY WILL MAKE HER LET HER GUARD DOWN AFTER A WEEK OR SO.Then will come a time when you become thick friends after a year or two. Anything takes time and varies with individuals.

why not include her in you next night out with friends?

you love her,to be declared

Don't take it to heart. Some people are just very quiet like that. My daughter and I are selective mute and when I was younger, I would have been just like that. The best thing to do is not let on that her silence bothers you. Instead be cheerful and chatty. Ask a couple of questions but at first...talk about you. I'm sure as she get comfortable with you she will open up. Don't push her or you will shut her down.

Hi, now this calls for a little bit of Clinical Psychology!If a person is behaving in a little abnormal manner, there would be a definitely something behind it & all you have to do is dig out the reason. Often, it is some mishap happened in the Past, or certain circumstances or certain people(could be close ones-family etc)who would have forced your room-mate to be quiet.Keep talking about various things, various people,stories, myths, jokes,whatever till your partner opens out-- He or she would one fine day burst out Laughing or Crying---& from that day, your room-mate would be totally a different person. Thanks, www.creatingcolourfulfuture.com

Some people are just like that and like to keep to themselves. It's likely you've done absolutely nothing wrong , it's just a case of different personalities..:)

I would bet that she is shy. Try asking her questions and telling her about your life, asking advice, etc. People like that have to be drawn out of their shell. I know because I am like that sometimes.

Ey, how long have you guys been roomates? .. Maybe she's just shy or something to that effect. Well i guess, you have to make an extra effort for her to feel at home with you. You know what em sayin? .. On the other hand, just let it be. Do your own thing. Stop worrying about that when you know for yourself that you did no harm or anything to her. Give her space, in no time for sure she'll open up to you. Take care now. (",)

I'm sure you have done nothing to upset her, it may well be her way to keep quiet until she feels able to open up and talk with people. Some people are very private individuals, give her some space but let her know that she is welcome.

It sounds like she doesn't want a friend in you. Has it always been like that? That must be so awkward and uncomfortable to come home to. I can't imagine it. Maybe you need to find a different roomate?