Your closed friend cheat you!

Philippines
July 18, 2007 9:55am CST
Would you still believe and trust a closed friend who betray your trust and cheat you??? Not just for a first time but for the second time around! It may hard to believe but I know someone that still trust her closed friend who betray her up to the point of ruin her love life. In this moment, we can always see them together in most escapades or just see them talking enjoyably to each other. Well! If this case happen to me maybe I can forgive her but I'm not sure if I can still give her the trust I used to shown to her. About you?????????
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4 responses
• India
18 Jul 07
I will give one more chance.But i will keep some distance from him.It is not good to believe him blindly again.In this world cheating is common and it is very difficult to get a good friend.
@stmartin (157)
• Macedonia
18 Jul 07
I think the best friends are the persons from your family. They can never cheat you, if they do, they do because of reasons and missions which must be realised, but they are for your good.
• Philippines
18 Jul 07
I strongly agree with you. You can only look for a true friend inside your home for I'm sure they don't want you any harm. Thanks for your opinion.
• Bangladesh
19 Jul 07
dear writter, I really am sorry for the above circumstances. Friends are really takes a major part of our life. So if some betrays and if he is ur best mate then it is so painfull. And u said not once it happened twice, So i think it is better to ask him/her directly why he/she did this? and make furthur discition wheather to trust or not.. i would like to mension that i didnt understand what u actually meant. But still betrayed from close mate has hurt me so i replied u. i think u will write again clearly.
• Philippines
19 Jul 07
Thanks for replying even if u didn't it that much. next time I will try to write as clear as I can be for u to understand well!
@stmartin (157)
• Macedonia
18 Jul 07
I could give my friend one chance more, if she/he betrays me for second time she/he can be my friend, but not closer, and I will never trust to she/he again. My mind, my conscious won't let me trust her/him.
• Philippines
18 Jul 07
Same here friend! Trust should be earn and should not be destroy for it can't be return easily again. Thanks.
@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
18 Jul 07
Well it all depends on the situation.. But if a friend were to lie to me about something I would really have to think about it. Sometimes people don't tend to do it but it just happens.. But I do know one thing if they were a close friend they wouldn't be as close to me as they once were. I would rather though have someone be honest to me even if were to hurt me than lie to me and make me feel better! Have a great day!