do you mind you are single all the time.

@cosylvia (401)
China
July 20, 2007 3:45am CST
till now,i dont like to building the further relationship with someone,dont like someone share my area.if i can stand on my own bottom ,i really dont mind i am single.
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@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
Honestly at my age, I mind. haha! I already came to a point that i am getting tired of being one you know. Good thing, got a boyfriend in tow and soon planning to tie the knot. Thanked God! LOL .. As for you, you are so young. So many good things in store for you and ahead of you. That is nice, keep it up. Enjoy life to the fullest even if you are single. . Thats what i did. Take care now. (",)
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@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
Hmnnn..i can sense that something bad in terms of lovelife happened to you my friend. Ohhh, please dont think that way. In all aspects, we need them. Hope all's well with you. (",)
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@cosylvia (401)
• China
21 Jul 07
luckily,miss the wrong one i can gain the fit one for me.yes?thanks for your comment.
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@mengyuan (46)
• China
1 Aug 07
I mind,i dont want to being single all the time. i need to share my feeling ,mind, happen, sadness,and so on with my parnter.I belive that someday you will change your mind.
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@cosylvia (401)
• China
1 Aug 07
thanks for ur attention,i think it isnt easy find someone would share feeling with me..
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@Mare73 (1335)
• United States
30 Jul 07
I'm 33 and I'm in a "serious" relationship going on 2 1/2 years. I think I was much happier (not satisfied) when I was single. Life w/someone is complicated, especially when one is going down road X and the other road Y. I think we are have the right to be w/someone, single, etc.. Just because someone is single does NOT mean they are alone.
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@cosylvia (401)
• China
31 Jul 07
yes,thanks for your reply pure-hearted,coz i have few friends so when have no lover i feel very lonely,so now i try to building some friendship yes?hehe
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@1qazxsw2 (512)
• Singapore
30 Jul 07
when I was single, I wanted to have relationship with someone..but when I got married, I wanted to be single again..but when I got my son...I found that I love to have a family again...
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@cosylvia (401)
• China
31 Jul 07
yes,i love child too,so regret i have no hubby so cant have,hahahha
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@madrush (22)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
the other guy's 26, what of me? nearing to be the next 40 yr old virgin? kidding aside, it could be an advantage to be single, that much i agree with you in terms of space include time too for you have all the luxury of time to pamper yourself with everything you want to do. But again we need one another (i mean we need opposite genders) as the other girl said you need a man too one day, coz it gets crazy lonely too to come back home to an empty room, no one to hug you and say "i love you", not knowing that someone love you back or care for you... as for me, i don't mind at all and ignored the people who conspires theories that i'm about to enter priesthood, they even had bets on it.
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@cosylvia (401)
• China
21 Jul 07
hahah,i had a lover,when we together in the same city,like you said,back home give a hug,and say live you,and go outside for lunch together,but when we not in the same city.he go outside with friends,and dont give me call and sms..i am sadness..so i dont mind single,coz when i have lover,i still feel lonely...thanks for your commment
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• Philippines
20 Jul 07
I believe that being a single is not a negative factor. In fact, there are benefits of being single than being married, and the other way around. If a woman is designed by God to be single, I don't think there's a problem. God will sustain her...I'm married.
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@cosylvia (401)
• China
21 Jul 07
if not married,should have some intimate friend,so can confide some heartwords
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@elmo1211 (212)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
i'm now 26. at my age, i don't mind being single... without a girlfriend and i don't date much even. i go out with friends during my off days at work and be with family. that's it for me now.
@cosylvia (401)
• China
21 Jul 07
yes.single is so free.thanks for your comment
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@az03r4 (916)
• Indonesia
13 Dec 07
sometimes I really bored to be a single. But, when I'm alone at my small room, I always cry and could ask something... Oh GOd!! My loneliness's killing me. I really wanna get boyfriend. But Pliz give me the best one.. LOL
• Pakistan
13 Dec 07
O don't be. Who would accept a crying girl :) lol Don't cry, be happy, all you need to have is patience, and you will find a nice guy. You will get the best one ;) Hopefully :) Have fun :)
@az03r4 (916)
• Indonesia
13 Dec 07
how nice.. yeah, and I hope so. thanks for your support. lol ;)
@cosylvia (401)
• China
13 Dec 07
the same as you,sometimes bored to be a single but when i feel alone i am very sad one in a while maybe i cry like you,hehe,but now is okey..wish you have a enjoy everyday,merry christmas.
@cuterose (1698)
• India
14 Dec 07
not at all. i like being single. brcause we dont have to worry about going out where we want and with whom we want, we dont have to answer to the silly questions and silly poems from the partner, etc etc and here in India being single is actually considered good only. because we still prefer arranged marriages!
@cosylvia (401)
• China
15 Dec 07
thank you for your attention and comment,sometime be single is good but sometimes feel so lonely,,wish you have a good day and merry the coming christmas..
@cuterose (1698)
• India
15 Dec 07
thanks buddy! merry christmas! :)
@scoles (65)
• Philippines
13 Dec 07
what a strong lady... there are really few ladies like you and for me i find interesting knowing people like you... how i wish i could know you more... but i think sometime not now but sooner your going to find it very comfortable to be with a guy... have you ever felt that way ever since?
@cosylvia (401)
• China
13 Dec 07
thank you for your attention first,yes maybe with a guy is funny too..but not now for sooner hehe wish you have a good day
@scoles (65)
• Philippines
14 Dec 07
you sure about that? that being with a guy it sounds kinda funny? hehehe have anybody had hurt you? did you ever have boyfriend before? sorry lot of questions...
• Philippines
25 Dec 07
someone you deserve will come your way. i'd been into lots of heartaches too and there was a time that i don't want to trust any man, but as destiny dictates, i still ended up marrying my loving and caring husband. sometimes you have to be happy that such relationship turned sour as this will pave the way to meet the right guy for you. if someone left you just shrug your shoulder and say "it's not my loss, it's yours."
@cosylvia (401)
• China
26 Dec 07
thank you for your attention and comment,,i never missed the one could not deserve..in fact i enjoy the single position,best luck of you,,wish you have a good day..
@janet66 (53)
• China
25 Dec 07
Because i have no lover,i have to be single until i find him!Actually it is impossible to be single all the time.When i am older,i need to marry.Otherwise my mother will worry about me.There will be different stress from other aspects.I can not breathe when this situation happens. Anyway:We also need to do what we think.This is very important.And remember let's go naturally !
@cosylvia (401)
• China
25 Dec 07
honey,wish you will find your MR RIGHT tomorrow,lol,,,,merry christmas!if you available come to visit me..
@subha12 (18453)
• India
17 Dec 07
I am single. I had been like this all through. i do not mind being single. I can live my life as I want it to.
@cosylvia (401)
• China
18 Dec 07
yes,so great ,you can enjoy the coming christmas with your family and your friends wish you have a good day and merry christmas
@bishu_sinha (1459)
• India
13 Dec 07
Would vary according to circumstances. All have their advantages and disadvantages. The one that has everybody happy is the best.
@cosylvia (401)
• China
13 Dec 07
thank you for your attention and comment sincerely,and wish you have a good day and merry the coming christmas
• Philippines
13 Dec 07
Hi! how old are you now? maybe you are still young thats why you are not yet bothered. are you the one in the picture?
@cosylvia (401)
• China
13 Dec 07
maybe in china in this age is not youth..coz some of my colleage is only 20years old,this is compare mine 23 is so young,heheh,but i dont care i believe i can find the right person together with me ...thank you for your atttion again ,wish you have a good day.
@secretbear (19464)
• Philippines
13 Dec 07
I'm starting to mind it! LOL I'm only 25 but my last boyfriend was back in college and I have been a graduate for 3 years! ^__^;; that's how long I don't have a someone special. I didn't mind at first because my work keeps my mind busy and I was happily living my single life coz I can do whatever I want, I can go wherever I want to. ^__^ no worries over commitment, no nothing. LOL but I'm missing the days shared with someone special, the sweetness, the thoughtfulness, all the pleasure of having a boyfriend. LOL I still don't mind being single but it would be better if someone would come along and make my life brighter. ^__^
@cosylvia (401)
• China
13 Dec 07
yes,for sometimes be single we r so available can go anywhere we want can do anything we like also can date with anyone we like,but sometimes i feel so lonely,so now i still thirst for a good man....so wish you have a good day and merry christmas
@rsa101 (16083)
• Quezon City, Philippines
13 Dec 07
Whatever feels comfortable and right for you will work for you. Do not force yourself to something you won't feel comfortable and happy.
@cosylvia (401)
• China
13 Dec 07
thank you for your attention and wish you have a good day and merry the coming christmas
• Pakistan
12 Dec 07
Well, I don't mind if someone is single all the time. It's up to you, whether be single or get married, or get in some relationship. If you can't come close to some person, it means you can't make your trust on him, that sort of thing. Or maybe you can't find a guy that you can trust upon, or a guy who really cares about you, and make you fall in love with his caring and gentleness. It happens that you don't like building a relationship with anyone, but what if, this likeness changes? It happens, this is life, it changes all the time :) There might be prince for you, have patience ;) lol
@cosylvia (401)
• China
13 Dec 07
yes,none wanna be single in the whole life,coz cant fine anyone i can trust on,he has the complex thought,when we r at the cold war,,he can stand ignore to me for 1 month
@mcjeannie (704)
• Philippines
11 Dec 07
Being single, married, divorced, widow or widower would not make life different. There will always be a point in life that your individuality should exist, otherwise you're faking yourself.Single is great, freedom is in its extreme.Being married is better, gives you more direction with life, but if you are less tolerant to troubles, don't get married it is not made of roses all the time.Divorced is learning from mistake decision and being widowed or widower is the grip of reality that life has an end or all good things never last. In summary, it depends how to make your life meaningful...those I mentioned were part of stages in life in which whatever stage you are in,what matter is as long as you're at peace and happy, it is as good as the other type or statuses in life!
@cosylvia (401)
• China
13 Dec 07
yes,i like your comment very much,analysis some kinds position of life ...i know how i would do in the future,only make myself happy ,meantime work hard can enrich my life..
• Philippines
11 Dec 07
Hey there cosylvia! I guess we have the same denominator. I also don't mind being single. Despite the fact that my friends kept mocking on me because of my age and status, I still don't mind it. I am honestly happy with my life without having a partner at all. I appreciate the peace and solitude in me. I know that no man is an island. We all need to belong. And for me, I feel belongingness with my friends and family. I know that they will always be here for me especially at tough times. Cheers!
@cosylvia (401)
• China
13 Dec 07
yes,why do you wanna be single,but still wish you can stop this position i think be sinle is so free but so solitude...