He's 38 and cheating on his wife with a 19 year old!!

cheating husbands why? - cheating husbands and why?
United States
July 20, 2007 9:11pm CST
He's my friend and so is she. Now he's cheating on her. Do I stay loyal to him or her? I'm so confused, what would you do? Have you been in this spot? I mean they have a daughter who's 19 also, I think that is so sick! Why is he ruining his marriage with a young girl like that? And where is this girl's morals? God these things never end!
3 responses
@beckish (614)
• United States
21 Jul 07
Cheating is not okay in my book, no matter how old they are. If the marriage is over, then they need to separate and work on a divorce. As for the age difference; that doesn't really make any difference. Age is relative after both parties are 18. My second husband was thirteen years older than me.
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• United States
21 Jul 07
Really? I do understand your point, but check this out right; When I caught him with the merchandise in his hands, I was like oh my god! the girl nearly looks like his oldest daughters friends. I was like sorta sick to my stomach. I mean one thing is to have an age diffrence, but don't you think having someone who's your daughters age a bit extreme? I mean I see stuff like that on tv, but never so close to home and in real life. I'm so torn at the fact that he's eyes widened so and I know he's probably thinking if I'm going to say something or not. I think this kind of triggered my bit of a bad attitude this evening. I'm glad I just posted this to get some good advice. Thanks beckish.
@butterfly39 (3907)
• Philippines
21 Jul 07
Well If I were on your shoe, I would rather talk to the wife ask her if she's aware of her husband's doing. Are you sure you are closed to them?... Just tell her what you see...so hurting.
• United States
21 Jul 07
i would personally tell his wife, simply based on my morals.