if you break up with your lover,would you wish have a good life in future?

@cosylvia (401)
China
July 23, 2007 3:10am CST
i break up with my lover.he is so hardhearted,i dont want to he have a good life in future,Although i dont think this a good way.and is ao small-minded.i dont know how to deal it..
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4 responses
@carmelanirel (21108)
• United States
26 Jan 08
Dealing with a broken heart is tough, but the best thing you can do for your self and your ex is to just forgive and go on..Sometimes it isn't easy, especially if you have been together for a long time, but in the end, you will have peace..:)
@cosylvia (401)
• China
28 Jan 08
hello,as you said,now my life is so peace,and i wish he will be happy....thank you for your comments,and i think we fall in love each with before,we need to pray for each other in future
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• United States
28 Jan 08
You are very wise and to look into the future and forget about the past is the best thing you can do..:)
@suspenseful (40326)
• Canada
26 Jan 08
You could always reverse this, put it into a different perspective, wish that your lover would not be so hardhearted, and that he would become a nicer person so that he would have a nice life. You see if you wish someone ill, it not only affects him, it affects his family as well who might depend on him for their living, so if he loses his job, and gets demoted, then they do not have that much money coming into the family. Also he might retaliate his misfortune unto them and that is not right.
@cosylvia (401)
• China
28 Jan 08
hello,it isnot a advisable way to deal it,and now,i will pray for him,can enjoy the life more happy than me,thank you for your attention and comment..
@1qazxsw2 (512)
• Singapore
30 Jul 07
I think this is just the beginning of the breakup so there are hard feelings..but after awhile..the feelings will be gone....When I was younger..I broke up with my girlfriend..I had the same feelings but after so many years I would think of her and how she would be like with her new family, children and all and wish her well...
@cosylvia (401)
• China
10 Dec 07
thank you for your reply ,but so regret i read it now,till now i will bless for him,and wish him can be happy..
@subha12 (18462)
• India
13 Feb 08
Look at the initial moments you atke the oath taht you won't love anyone any more. you make a promise that you won't fall in l;ove also. but it actually cahnges with time. time is a great healer and you try to learn that life is not that all bad. may be we find it really hard to believe anyone later.