I was pregnant...

@Marie2473 (8521)
Sweden
July 23, 2007 1:59pm CST
As some of you know I was pregnant not long ago and lost the baby due to complications. The baby was something my bf was happy about and he discussed daily about it and when we could try again after the loss. Sure he - and me, had doubts in the eginning but as soon as we took the decision we were both so happy. I am wondering now - if he would have done the same if I was still pregnant? Would he have walked out on his child as well? Would he have stayed for that single reason, or would he have tried atleast to work out the problems that he obviously thinks that we have? I do not understand how a person can change like this in no time at all.... Just a few days ago we were lauging and talking about holidays and engagement... What happened ??? *****crying**** Sorry, just ranting - need to get things off my cheast and out of my mind.
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• United States
26 Jul 07
Is he leaving because you lost the baby or for other reasons? Either way it sounds like you are better off without him. Go ahead and rant that's what we are here for. Just remember that there is someone out there that will love you no matter what happens in life and will stay with you through what ever the two of you go through.
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• United States
25 Jul 07
You go ahead and rant. We are here for you. It is better to unload this grief you feel rather than keep it locked inside.
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• United States
24 Jul 07
I am so sorry about the baby.The good news is that you can try again. But it sounds like it won't be with your current boyfriend.I know you are sad now ,but I know there is a man out there who really wants you and wants to have children with you. I hope you have some real friends you can talk to.Take Care.
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@lburns70 (182)
• United States
23 Jul 07
I am sorry to hear of your loss. I am sure that if he was happy about the baby before you had the miscarriage he would still be happy. Not to open fresh wounds but my teen daughter is pregnant and her bf is supportive. I have hopes that he will stay in the picture but one never knows. Good luck and take care of yourself. That is the most imoportant thing.
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