who controls your relationship? is it the man or the woman?

@rexiemay (402)
Philippines
July 27, 2007 10:22pm CST
there are relationships that the men are more domineering than women partners. i guess for a relationship to work, they must both work together. they must have lots of compromise. men want to control women but in the end , for a healthy relatinoship, both must give way.
3 responses
@mkcallejo (318)
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
compromise is very imporatant in a relationship even though there are some people who have the tendency to lie and deceive their partners.
@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
28 Jul 07
My husband and I don't control each other.. We do things together and I don't believe on controlling nore does he.. Because he knows that I wouldn't do what he wanted anyway and I don't expect him to do what I say either.. So we are both equal when it comes to something like that... I also don't like men who control others either i think if I was ever in that position I'd wouldn't want to stay in that relationship I'd want to get out as soon as I could..
@tuffy999 (794)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
for a relationship to work both parties should have equal footing. it's give and take.