Do you believe that we can find true love on-line?

United States
July 27, 2007 11:56pm CST
I ask this because I've met a wonderful man who I never would have gone for if we met in person. I took the time and talked to him endlessly for a couple of months and feel like I've finally met the man that I can have a lasting relation ship with. We've been together for about 4 months now and I've never been happier in my romantic life, though he's so anti anything that I've ever gone for in the past. I guess what I'm asking is, do you think that love found online can be the lasting kind that stays with you forever?
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• United States
28 Jul 07
Happy for you and I wish you Good luck! Love is love, doesn't matter where or when you founded it. Just be confident and enjoy it! Personally I had same bad experiences with meeting men on-line, but I still am optimistic that same day I will find somewhere there in cyberspace my soul matte.
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@mizcash (686)
• Canada
28 Jul 07
Definitely it can happen. My very good friend met her husband online a couple days age they celebrated their first weeing anniversary. They are very happy and about ready to start a family. I think when you meet someone online you really get to know the person without any physical attraction but actually develop something deeper.
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• Philippines
28 Jul 07
Yes I think love could be found online, but more often than not, it's a matter of luck. I found my wonderful partner online 3 years ago and like you, we chatted/talked for a few months and when we finally met in person, we both felt like we have known each other for years. In spite our cultural differences, we have not had any real quarrel so far and we are very happy. I hope and pray we will be together forever.
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• Philippines
28 Jul 07
ye, it depends!!! God bless
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• Canada
28 Jul 07
Yes I believe we can find true love on line. I believe it because it happened to me. I met the man who recently became my fiance, almost three years ago in a writing group. We found we had loads in common outside of our interest in writing, and we got together. Now we are engaged to be married!
@mrsbrian (1951)
• United States
28 Jul 07
I agree with danish I met my love on the internet in a game room and after chatting for months and meeting a couple times we got together and are now married and very happy. Good luck with your engagement Danish I wish you all the best.
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
Well it depends on your purpose. . .but that seldome happends. If you say friends well I'd say 99% you can find one or even a lot. . .
@pendragon (3354)
• United States
28 Jul 07
I found the love of my life online, and we're going on 4 years together with no end in sight.I hope she's with me forever, so, yes I believe you can, because I have!:)
• Brazil
28 Jul 07
It's possible.. The internet conect you to everyone.. maybe one person is your twin soul..
@wisedragon (2330)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
Why not? The Internet is just another way to meet people. It's like going to a bar or joining a social organization. It's just that it's easier to conceal one's true identity on the Internet. That means we just have to be careful and really take time to get to know the person, in person. Best of luck!
@akumah (2)
• Brazil
28 Jul 07
i belive because o like of a girl...and i speak to she in internet...i like she but i never find she in real world
@carib102 (14)
• United States
28 Jul 07
I think love is love no matter where you find it. And it should be cherished because too many people live without love in their lives. In my case I met my wife on the internet in November 2005, we were married in April 2006 and we are still ecstatic with each other today. And though we share some of the same interests we also have many differences due to our cultural backgrounds. I am American and she is Thai and while you might think that the differences would make things difficult I think they actually make things easier sometimes. It helps to keep us both more open and understanding of the other. Well, that's just my two cents and I wish you all the luck in the world.
@anousha (406)
• Mauritius
28 Jul 07
I really don't think so and I'm saying this through personal experience.. Some months back I chatted with a guy and I found him very sincere, romantic and honest with me. Slowly I began to "fall in love" with him and finally we decided to meet. OMG it was the most horrible date of my life, though I'm still young. That guy lied to me on very single thing..he smoked and had a fiancée although there was no one in his life when we chatted. He had the guts to act like if I was his gf and was talking a lot of rubbish. Moreover he was showing-off with his new cellphone and branded clothes... I think he had forgotten that he told me he was very humble and shy type of guy. But one thing he didn't lie on though was that he was really very sexy. So infatuation can happen BUT not love on net. But if u say you found "love" online then I pray it is so but however I don't think it will last forever though....Take care (",)
@punlonnjack (1309)
• United States
28 Jul 07
I think its possible. Love can be found just about anywhere. Its a matter of both parties and how they are compatable. It doesnt matter that it was online. If your in love forget about how you meat just work on the relationship now and move forwaard. good luch and god bless.Way to go dutchess.Your very lucky to find someone.they say there is someone out there for all of us you find someone go with it.
• United States
28 Jul 07
That is something I am unsure of, since I have not personally gone through it myself. I'm guessing that there is many things one has to think about, like are you able to handle a long distance relationship, are you willing to compromise at some point if and when the decision comes for one or the other to move. I think it could very well work, if the people involved with it stick it through and see how things went.
@kilayko (170)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
well finding true love on line is quite amazing.as a normal human being we fall in love to a person whom we have seen in the real world.but today's world we chat in the internet and we look for someone to be with to.but that's good.its the real life.
• China
28 Jul 07
true love is everywhere...you can find it in true life or on line and so on...
@kimyat24 (42)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
i'm sorry but i don't thing so... i think true love grows from s couple that do interact... you have to feel your partner, you have to be able to communicate in a way that normal relationships grow... i mean, it's different to love the old fashioned way...
@lpetges (3036)
• United States
28 Jul 07
i know of a couple of people who have found their soul mates on line. funny thing,. but they are really happy. i would be very careful, and do a background check for sure.
@wolfie34 (26793)
• United Kingdom
28 Jul 07
There is absolutely no reason at all while love found online can't flourish and become a great loving relationship. Nothing can be ruled out, and love comes from the most unexpected places! With technology advancing the way it is, and people preferring to stay in than go out now, it's no wonder that dating on line and dating sites have become big business! With love anything is possible and may I wish you all the happiness that you so rightfully deserve my friend and glad to see you back x
@aweins (4203)
• India
28 Jul 07
Dear Friend, I have got it, I am married for the past two years now and I met my wife online we too talked endlessly online and over the phone for a couple of months and we felt so strongly made for eachother that we decided over the phone that we would meet and marry eachother. It was and continues to be the most amazing thing happend to us in our lives. I stay in Mumbai India and my wife belonged to the northern part of India.. quite far off actualy and when we had decided she came to meet me and that was the first time we actualy saw and held eachothers hands. We experienced it in our lives and most of our friends are amazed about it. we met on for the first time on the 4th sept and two days later we got married.., both me and my wife we wish you the very best for your lives .. you too are experiencing something similar to what we felt privileged with.. :)