im sad and i feel so alone today, and you?

Philippines
July 29, 2007 3:58am CST
i feel so alone and no one seems to understand how im feeling now.. im like forcing myself to get over this, get over that, try to work things out, try to do things im better off.. but everthing just dont go my way.. feels like there still something lacking in my life.. something.. isnt for me.. no matter how i get things over with, i still cant feel the contentment which you feel when your heart smile out.. i dunno, theres something wrong and i dont have the faintest clue.. i need to be happy, rather i deserve to be happy..
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@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
There are certain times that comes to our life where we feel sad, lonely and alone. I also felt these things before, as I spent almost a year by just being alone and keeping myself busy to whatever things I can keep my mind occupied with. From playing playstations, reading books and browsing the internet all day. But there's also a time where loneliness fades, as our heart and mind gets tired of always having the thought of it, the urge of having a company or someone to talk to comes out naturally within us. They say that, "no man is an island," and "good things come to those who wait." So maybe that's the reason why there are still people like us, who still continues the journey in our different lives.
• Philippines
31 Jul 07
yea there are times where loneliness comes to peoples lives.. but for me, i guess its "most of the time".. good for you youve been with this feelings already, but im going through it right now actually.. yea iv been trying to do a lot of things to get my mind busy. and not think of sad thoughts, but things just really dont go my way.. thanks though.. nice to hear good things.. good day.. malas lang talaga ako..
@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
31 Jul 07
Don't look at it as a bad sign or badluck, these things happens for us to grow more as a person/individual and not to dwell ourselves more into it. I still have those feelings of being alone, but I just know now how to handle more of it. You too, should move on and let go of that uncertain happening in your life. Do not put much thought about it, go out and enjoy the company of your friends!;)
• Philippines
31 Jul 07
i feel better now,..... thanks for all the wise words youve given me.. i realized i should take life slowly,, im young and theres more to life than this hatred stuff,. im looking forward to see a better me., good day thanks..
@tute_cute (318)
• Indonesia
30 Jul 07
I feel alone too taday, my boyfriend went to Bandung and He left me alone. I try to be happy and do something with my friends, but i can't do it coz my friends must go out. I want to do something that make me happy and smile. Lonelyness is very very bad. Happiness can't change it today.....
• Philippines
31 Jul 07
i understand how you feel.. there are also times that i just wanted to go out with friends, unwind and chill.. but they also have things to do and a time for their selves.. so iv got no choice but to hang alone and do some other stuffs that would just help me cry out the pain.. goodluck for the both of us.. atleast your boyfriend just got out of town, my boyfriend just left me.. =(
@arcidy (5016)
• United States
31 Jul 07
yeah Ive had that feeling when I was a junior in high school I was pretty much depressed through out the whole year because I didnt have one friend in any of my classes and of course its hard for me to make friends back then and I hated my classes which were terrible so pretty much throuh out the whole year I was depressed and always wanted to kill my self but I wouldnt and I was depressed after highschool because I didnt have a job and wasnt making any money so i couldnt do anything fun but since i got my job ive been quite happy with my life cause im out of the house making some friends and making money to go out and do stuff. But if you need anyone to talk to you can talk to me since I know where your coming from and I think I can help you out
@sid556 (31005)
• United States
29 Jul 07
Do you feel this way always or is it just today? If it is just a bad day, oh we all have them. Sometimes I get feeling as if everything in my world is just all wrong and nothing i do is right. It is a horrible feeling. I usually try to keep busy and get my mind off from feeling so lousy about things. Usually it works. Responding to some of the more cheerful posts here could help. Also, helping someone else out who is having a bad day could help. Usually a good nights sleep clears up everything...kind of like re-booting the computer. Hope things are looking up for you by the time you get this!!
• China
29 Jul 07
Have a nice day ! Have a sweet smell! lisen some your favourite music and try to talk with your frineds. Mybe you will get better soon. The last but not the least. Go to bed early and have a good rest . The bad times will gone .
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
its not quite long enough..i mean its not like everyday but it seems like one though.. not as like consecutive days yea.. i dunno.. cant really tell.. but this has been going for months, years or something, i dunno..
• Australia
29 Jul 07
Hello aikastacruz I am feel lonely today but I try to keep my self busy in here and chatt with my my brother in other country. I try to enjoy my lonely and try to think positive. I really get bored today but I have to keep my self happy and not think about that, I hope you can do that too, and in myLot can help you more. God bless you *angel
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
hi angel., im kinda into recreating by responding to some interesting discussions where as im earning as well.. i just feel so alone.. thanks for such wise words.. somehow it made my heart smile knowing someone understands how i feel.. i wanna make myself happy but dunno how.. mylot helps me get busy reading and typing and not thinking of such problems i opt not to talked about.. thanks again, have a good day my friend.. god bless you to0..
• Australia
31 Jul 07
Hello aikaztacruz You are right, myLot can be a place to share with, just like now when I am sad, I can share my story here. God bless you
• Malaysia
31 Jul 07
i hope you're now smiling and feeling happy again :) ..it's my turn to feel sad and alone right now T_T ..had a disagreement with my bf and i feel really sad. like both of us don't wanna give in, i expect him to understand me and he expects me to understand him. but someone has to give in eventually and i bet it would be me. can't take it anymore, why must i always give in and surrender? sigh.
• Philippines
31 Jul 07
yea i always smile, but dsnt mean my heart smiles with me,. i dunno if i can say im happy but i can say i felt better now because im with my bf this afternoon, we're doing okay.. well, so so.. but its a good start right.. iv been in that situation to0, where as im expecting him to understand me but he dont see my point and vice versa.. and we're always in that same situation whenever misunderstandings arises.. we do alot of arguments first before making into a final decsion (we do alot of arguments even with lil stuffs actually), maybe you guys should talk about the problem first before giving it up or something.. talk talk and talk will surely help,, give him time to speak for his side and ask him to do the same thing with you.. with that, you'll understand each other better.. ask your bf to be nice, and be a good listener.. just do the same thing.. never shout or something.. talk in a good manner.. maybe this'll help.. goodluck., godbless my friend.. hang on dont just give up that easy..
@amyann16 (414)
• United States
29 Jul 07
Yes, you deserve to be happy :) Hang in there, we all have days like this occasionally, and sometimes there may be several days in a row. Try to focus on things you enjoy, make a decision to try something different and put your all into it. Slowly you will see that things will start to turn around for you. Hang in there.
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
yea, im trying to enjoy life..coz i wouldnt have another in the same era for sure.. there's only one in a million me so yea ill hold on to that saying.. thanks.. thanks for all the wise words and for trying to remind me that life's short so we all have to enjoy every bit of it.. h0lla. *sigh*
• China
29 Jul 07
i oftn feel alone,so i can understand your feeling.when u feel alone ,please don;t let yourself free,and try to some interesting things or that could make you buzy.such as cleaning your room,reading books,watching films,chatting by MSN.maybe,make a time table is a good idea too.don't think there lackness in your life.because everyone has lackness in life.the problems you thought are endless.why not make yourself happy?
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
im trying to make myself happy though.. its like it aint enough.. everything i do seems to be craps and im such an idiot.. sometimes i hate myself for being so cLmsy and the like.. grr.. evrything is really a mess. but im trying to hold on for my future.. i wanna have a great job and be good at my career and etc etc.. ill get rich.. aftr 40years im gonna marry somebody.. =| asking y after 40 years of career? so that my man wouldnt go for another woman (he'd just want someone who'd be with him til his last breath) *to0 mushy.
@Mervz_82 (22)
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
Everybody deserves to be happy... including us! Yes us because like you i also feel left alone and taken for granted. I've been feeling this most of the time and its really hard that's why i do busy myself with things i like but still that emptiness i feel is always there lying in the background. Getting over such a feeling is so hard on my part. Is it the same with you? We deserve to find the happiness that we really deserve... ain't we? Hope you could find it too...
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
yea i hope, too, that i could find the happiness i deserve.. time will tell.. being left alone in pain is never easy.. i know your gonna agree with me.. *sigh* hope we'd find happiness so0n enough..