Do you easily hand out an apology just to break away from fights?

"he doesn't actually apologise but gets all mushy and starts kissing me or cuddling me to show he's sorry but he doesn't actually say it." I guess he's just embarrassed to say it because its either he doesn't want to admit his mistake or he's trying to make up for fighting or arguing with you. That's probably why he shows you his affection. "I will sort it out with them later such as discussing with them with they're calmer or sending them an email getting my point across." Yup. It's better that way because there's a tendency when people are too upset, they refuse to listen. They're simply close-minded. They only think about what they know is right. "with an email they can't interrupt what you're saying and you can say your piece and they can reply at their leisure!" Of course! That's a fine way of pointing what you want to point out. If people can't listen - certainly they can read. And it's better for them to read what you have to say, read again, and finally sink the message in their brains. Lucky if they get the message. Thanks for sharing! Much appreciated.

Thanks for your comment :) I have to add that I really try to avoid arguments as much as possible as I'm rather an emotional person and lately I end up in tears after an argument with hubby no matter how trivial the argument might be. It has a lot to do with my diabetes and feeling overly emotional all the time, it doesn't take much to set me off. My hubby mostly tries not to start arguments with me but sometimes he just says something which he thinks is funny and I can't take it - I think I've lost my sense of humour a bit too much these days LOL! This is another reason I avoid arguments outside of the home, I would be mortified if I was trying to get my point across at work for example and someone raised their voice to me and I burst out in tears, how unprofessional would that be? LOL!

Yes, well... Sometimes we can't control our emotions that's why we end up getting hurt with little things. I'm glad that you try your best to avoid fights. That's the safest thing to do. Gosh, I really don't like fights either. I usually end up getting hurt or I bursting into tears. But if I'm pissed - then that's the time I usually put up with a fight.. But then again.. I'll eventually get all worned out then just apoligize if things get out of hand or I'm too tired to prove my point. LOL! Take care! :)

Yeah! Go, Adrienne! LOL.

Yeah. I do that a lot of times because I feel all sick and dizzy when arguements won't cease - then it all ends with everybody whining, shouting, and hammering each other out. I don't like situations to get out of hand. I mean, why argue or fight some more just to prove your point then eventually get frustrated? Might as well back off and apologize to calm the atmosphere. Like what anonymili mentioned - we can send those people emails (or letters) to say our point. That way, they won't be able to interrupt what we had to say. Right? Thanks for the response.