How U All Feel When U Lost Or Get Fedup Of Life What U All Want 2 Do

@2babita (1074)
India
July 30, 2007 9:55am CST
Today I am a loser of every thing I dont want 2 live but 4 my children I will live but I just cant understand how 2 give up all sorts of my losing.I am very disturbe mentally how 2 solve this sitution.Can anybody help me.
5 responses
@lynboobsy11 (11347)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
Just cheer up my friend don't let the problems ruled you and feel you down. I once got fed up and a looser also with problems but just to think of it problems are there and even we don't want it to come It will come. The importance is on how we can mange this. Just take it not too seriously If you can't solve the problem immidiately maybe tomorrow or some other time. Just remember It will not given to us If we cant solve it. No problems has no solution just think of your children It's more problem If you will the one who loose just have pity on your children be strong and prayed a lot. Just think there's a lot of people who suffer problems more than your situation now.
@2babita (1074)
• India
30 Jul 07
Thanks 4 your advice,but my dear friend,today I am loser of everything-from relation,from love,from everything under the earth.Today I am just struggling 2 stand and make others feel I am a human not a machine.
@lynboobsy11 (11347)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
Sometimes thats our biggest enemy the feeling of so much down and you can even think the positive sides. Don't say that your a loser you have your children that loves you so much no one in this world is a loser they only feel that. Just be brave say it your self calm down and be positive done is done you can't change what happened the best is try to cope with it.
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• Thiruvananthapuram, India
30 Jul 07
Your kind words help build up confidence. Great advice you are putting up here .
@whyaskq (7553)
• Singapore
31 Jul 07
Since you are willing to live for your children, I believe you are already a winner. What are you talking about losing? In my opinion, everything is not lost. At least you still have some conscious and seek help. However, I can only say we can only give you a push. Only you can help yourself. Look at things from a brighter perspective, and I am sure you will do better than what you expect. If you are disturbed beyond control, may I suggest you seek professional help or obtain counselling on what you can do. It beats dwelling on being lost and end up losing more than just your life :P Cheer up ;)
@gr8life (6253)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 07
Hello 2babita, You sound so stressed. Unfortunately, I don't really understand what exactly happened to you. Why do you sound so disturbed and stressed? Please do not say that you are a loser. No matter what happen to you, you must be strong and try to face the reality. Life is not a bed of roses. It is full of hurdles and you need to be strong enough to face them. We need to be patient when being tested in this rough life. Soon, you will feel the brighter side of your life. Please don't give up easily in life. Like you said, you must be strong and carry on with life for the sake of your children. If you don't have the strength, what will happen to your children? They need you the most and please always be there for them. Look at your life and think carefully. Life is amazing and you should be proud for being able to be a part of this life. Take care!
@thefuture (1751)
• Nigeria
31 Jul 07
No friend. Don't say that because its not just good for you. Eventhough you must be going through stress and trouble at the moment, but you shouldn't let it affect your tomarrow cos your tomarrow is better than today. An you must understand that conditions don't last forever. Its just a temporal situation and you should let go anything that will make you have nagative thoughts. Go on your knees and pray to God. I'm sure He'll help you out. Thanks
@sukumar794 (5047)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
30 Jul 07
At the outset you just did not specify the nature of your problems. Why should anyone all of a sudden utter that he/she is losing hope and does not want to live. There must be some solid reason for your dissipated state of affairs. Until and otherwise there is some one to sort things out, How can you ever hope to get help . Another alternative would be to calm down and hope that problems will get softened up in course of time and everything will turn for the better . As for me, I feel that I am a much suffered soul than yours ...still I am managing things. LOL. Be courageous ...problems will vanish soon and good days will certainly dawn . Good luck.