I am very sad today.....

Australia
July 31, 2007 11:52am CST
Hello myLotter I am very sad now, one of my best friend, use to be my best friend but not anymore for me. Always disturb me and my boyfriend, I don't know what happen to her but she always try to separated me and my boyfriend. She always give testimonial to my boyfriend and write very bad word just to make me mad or make me jealous. I hope I can do a bad thing or just talk to her not to be like that. But I don't want to hurt her. But I am feeling better now. Thank you for share my sad story here. God bless you Do you have a same experience, what would you dot then?
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6 responses
@annavi (18)
• Philippines
31 Jul 07
I don't have a similar experience but it just occured to me that if a friend continuously hurt you, she's not worth calling a friend. Better get rid of her. A friend should be a person whom we can turn to when we are sad, or who can share our moments of laughter.
1 person likes this
• Australia
31 Jul 07
Helli annaviFirst time I want to say welcome to Mylot My mom said about that too. We don't need that kind of friend. But I don't know how to make her stop doing that. Thank you for your respond
@annavi (18)
• Philippines
3 Aug 07
Thanks for welcoming me. I'm sure is new in this kind of exchanges. I hope all is much better either with you, or between you and your friend. I hope you can find another friend who will actually care for you and do no harm. A true friend is indeed a true treasure.
@th_sia (164)
• Malaysia
6 Aug 07
Angel, i would advise you to have a little talk with her, ask her why she is doing so. Let her know that u r hurting ur feeling and u wish to know if u done anything wrong to her accidentally. I think a little communication could save your sad story.
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• Australia
6 Aug 07
Hello th_sia I try to talk to her, but better not I don't want to get angry with her. I just can pray for her. God bless you
@kayrod2 (1304)
• Australia
1 Aug 07
Maybe she is jealous of your boyfriend. She might think that you are going to spend less time with her. I think you need to talk to her, and tell her how you are feeling and try and work things out. If she isnt willing to accept your boyfriend, maybe you have to think about your friendship. I hope you can work it all out and all be friends. Best wishes to you, angel
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• Australia
1 Aug 07
Hello kayrod2 Thank you for your advise, I really don't know how to speak to her. I am afraid that I will hurt her with my word. I know that she really broke my heart, I hope I can forget her and what she did. God bless you
@maehan (1439)
• United States
5 Aug 07
Hi little angel, hey, your friend is nasty. Please do not feel sad, she don't deserve it. I know it is hard and sad to get over. And, it is easier to say than done. You are a nice girl. I think if you want to change her for the better, you may want to have a good talk with her. Hope she change. God Bless You!
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• Australia
6 Aug 07
Hello maehan I hope so, I always hope that she will be better in the future. I always pray for her. Thank you and God bless you
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
it hurts when the people you trusted are the ones who will gonna hurt you by ruining a good relationship with the significant others..it happened to me and my boyfriend..his trusted relatives whom he he had cared and supported for the longest of time started texting me and calling me saying he has a wife..he was no good for me becuase he was like this and that..all the bad things you can imagine to hear..vice versa, they call and text my bf to tell him the same words they told me..when he found out..his heart was broken..he trusted them so much only for them to do this to us..
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• Australia
1 Aug 07
Hello angel_of_char Why are friend did that for?? I really didn't understand, I really happy if one of my best friend have a good relationship, have a special friend. They are really stupid I think Thank you and God bless you
@az03r4 (913)
• Indonesia
1 Aug 07
actually nop, but if so, I'll talk it smoothly to her. about what does she mean, what's the point, wha't my fault? and apologize to her.
• Australia
1 Aug 07
Hello az03r4 I already apologize to her, but she never stop. I really don't know what to do. Thank you for your advise