friends i need your help

@fazelath (1176)
India
August 2, 2007 8:52am CST
friends i need your help,my boyfriend cheated me,he got engaged to another girl and he doesn't even want to talk to me,i am going through a very painfull situation and i cant tolerate this,i cant come out of this pain,i am not able to concentrate on anything,help me friends how do i come out of this painfull situation,
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5 responses
@rb200406 (1825)
• India
3 Aug 07
I am really sorry to hear this.But i think this is blessing in disguise as you are free from the hands of a person who is basically a cheater.Have courage & think positive.Everything happens for a reason & believe me future will be brighter for you.Even i had to go through somethinhg similar but after that what i got ,a superb husband with equally goo in laws who have given me so much love & there support & freedom in whatever i choose to do.Best of luck.Believe me you will get you share of happiness what you desetve.
@fazelath (1176)
• India
4 Aug 07
thank u rb200406,
• Philippines
3 Aug 07
Hi fazelath, don't worry you'll get over it. During the first few weeks the pain is intolerable you felt you want to die. After a while the pain will go away and you'd realize he's not worth a single tear at all. Go out and meet new friends.
@fazelath (1176)
• India
4 Aug 07
thank u for your response and your support
• United States
2 Aug 07
Count your blessings !!! You may not see them as blessings now..but in the future, say in a year or so..you'll understand fully ...To start off with, if the man cheated on you, I guarantee you he'll do it again ! I'm quite convinced that Man was not meant to be monogamous..though I fully believe in Monagamy...and believe if a marriage will work, it has to be with two people..not the extra's thrown in from one of the partners indescretions...So, if he's cheated on you, and now is engaged to this other girl/woman...just wait till after they're married...feel lucky !! And if he comes knocking at your door a few months down the road, especially after he's married..make sure you slam that door in his face...what was his history prior to your relationship ? Are you sure he didn't pull the same scenario with another girl/woman? Remember, Zebra's don't change their stripes !!!
@fazelath (1176)
• India
3 Aug 07
thank u jeannebean for your response,your words really console me,i cant concentrate on anything,i feel i have lost my life,but i shall always remember your words,and your words will console me,thank u so much
@sid556 (31003)
• United States
2 Aug 07
I am sorry you are going thru this. It is always painful when we realize that someone has betrayed us and is not at all the kind of person that we thought they were. I know that this isn't going to help much now but someday you will look back on this and realize that you were much luckier than the girl he is about to marry. Cheaters have a low system of values and generally don't make good boyfriends or husbands. Hang in there. This will get better in time. HUGS!
@fazelath (1176)
• India
3 Aug 07
thank u sid556 so much,i am really thank full for your response,i really needed some good friends at this time of my unconsolable pain,thank u
@mrsbrian (1951)
• United States
2 Aug 07
First off if he cheated you he is not worth the pain,if he is engaged to someone else he is not worth the pain, if he wont talk to you he is not worth the pain. You have to move on you did not deserve this treatment and he is not worthy of you,even if he came back do you really want him back, he is a cheater and a lier now do you want to be tied for life with some one like that?
@fazelath (1176)
• India
3 Aug 07
he got engaged and doesnt talk to me,i just wanted to talk to him only once,but he was very rude to me,thank u for your response in my bad times,i really feel good