shall i marry her or not?

@tkyass (133)
Egypt
August 2, 2007 9:35am CST
i know this girl for 4 years now the 4 years that i spent in college i really loved her now some one proposed to her i dont want to loose her so i want to propose but the problem i have no income i didnt find a job yet am not ure i wll find one soon so shall i propose???
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@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
Hey, i find these very confusing really. So u said someone proposed to her, so meaning she's into a relationship right now. And with your situation, i wanna ask if in what level do u have with this girl? Can u pls elaborate more? .. And talking abt income, on a personal note i guess u have to find a job first and earn money, save up for your future and for her as well. You have to also consider that practicality thing you know.. (",)
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@dunnbiz (33)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 07
If I were in your shoes, I would tell her what I truly feel. To spend a lifetime wondering on "If only I had told her,..." simply because it was too late would be too painful. To love is to risk getting hurt may sound like a cliche but it would be a correct thing to do: be true to your heart.
• India
2 Aug 07
i think u should ask her .. but marry only after u have a job
@paulsy (1264)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
If you really love her, let her know! It's really up to her to decide who she would want to share the rest of her life with. She would make the choice. If she chooses you, then you and her can make plans for the future. If she loves you, she will give you the time to prepare for your life together. What matters is that you let her know of your sincere love for her, and that you wish to share your life with her. Good luck!
@akudaniy (76)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 07
propose her, buddy! It's now or NEVER. Ask her if she want to live with you with the condition that yo have right now. If she really loved you, she is the best girl that you ever had
@sid556 (31005)
• United States
2 Aug 07
I would need to hear more details about your relationship with this girl before answering this. Is she even aware of how much you care for her?
@mflower2053 (3227)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Yes if you love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her then you should. If she does love you she will say yes no matter if you have an income yet or not. Give her the option but just make sure you know she may say no. Tell her before you propose that you love her and you are looking for a job at the moment and would love to marry her and spend the rest of your life with her when you are able to provide for her with your job. What you doing on mylot go look for a job? Hurry before its too late.