Should college student get married rightly after graduation?

China
August 4, 2007 10:15am CST
I have two friends who got married rightly after graduation. When I told my Mom, she said that girl was silly because the boy hadn't found a job and couldn't afford a house to live in. Many people believe that career should be set up before family.What do you think?
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4 responses
@ayris77 (1304)
• Malaysia
5 Aug 07
As i know,after graduation some people will take a change to find a job as fast as they can but some others,try to marriage as fast as they can! That's is 2 different situation!Fisrt situation is for a truely intelligent graduands and the second is for unwise graduands.I guess they will face s more problem to find a job when they're marriage,especially for woman.EXCEPT you come from wealthy family! That's up to them!
• China
6 Aug 07
Your response really makes sense!I also find that many lovers have to get married after graduation because the girl is pregnant.
@welllife (90)
• China
5 Aug 07
Yeah,in this world,love is not everything,we don't know wheather the couple will love each other forever,in my opinion, the girl should wait some time and live together for a long time and then she will know if she should marry with the boy.many college student don't know a lot about the sociaty.
• China
5 Aug 07
Chances are that the girl will find a better husband after she enter the society
@anousha (406)
• Mauritius
4 Aug 07
I think ur mom is right. Love isn't everything. U need to have a house, a stable job with enough income to be able to live adequately. Its very difficult to live as a couple if ur future is not secure. Well I have acquaintances who have got married after high school and without completing graduation and above that against their parents wishes. They say that they are living happily and did a right thing to marry, however do u think that even if they aren't they will tell the truth about their living conditions?? I don't think so...
• China
5 Aug 07
You speak out my worries. House work and family keeping will bring some negative effects on young couple's prospect of career inevitably.
@ibsnet (1268)
• India
4 Aug 07
Marry your True Love - Love is divine. Love to be loved
Obviously nowadays earning is a factor that resists marriage looking at the future life after marriage and many marriage does break on this issue. I want to say here that if you have found your true love then this age is good for marriage. But looking at this fast changing highly uncertain world we should be prepared financially before we think of marriage and if one of you has a service or a little earnining then yu must marry your love. Love is divine don't lose it. If it is not possible to marry maintain your love. True love is much more than mere physical attraction it is great bond of emotions. Keep loving. Love to be loved. Marry your's true love only.
• China
5 Aug 07
Thank! The chances to meet a true lover is precious anyway