Do you like your lover to be older or younger than you?
August 5, 2007 9:59am CST
For me it doesn't matter as long as the guy is mature enough to handle a relationship because it's not about the age, it's HOW mature are you? Because sometimes you choose someone older than you because you thought that older guys are more mature but when you're already in a relationship with that older guy, you find out that he's not that mature. He's older than you by age but when it comes to his actions it looks like that you're older than that guy. And when you tried to have a relationship with a younger guy, you find out that this guy is very mature when it comes to relationship, and you know you can depend on that guy. So it doesn't matter if his older or younger, what is important that his mature enough to handle a relationship.
5 Aug 07
Hi. Eversince i'm attracted to older men really. . My boyfriend now is 10 years older than me and soon he'll be my fiancee. Its a nice feeling though cause i feel so secured, protective and so loved by him. He pampers me a lot and love him for all those traits he got. Take care. (",)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
5 Aug 07
People younger than me seem really young to me, so I'd have to say my age or older. I live in a town that has a college, and I'm always seeing the college kids acting like complete morons, so I guess that colors my opinion of people in that late teen-early twenties age group. I'm sure not everyone is like that, but I just get tired of listening to them running around drunk all night and partying all the time. My husband is four years older than me, and we seem to be pretty much on the same page as far as maturity goes.
5 Aug 07
Well, I must say that this happens in a real rare case I guess. Maturity comes along with the experience with increasing of time. As about me I preger older boys to be lover rather than the younger boys. It's about the experience and the way they are able to handle the situation. My boyfriend is 4 and half years older than me. We are doing pretty good.