Post 30 and never married

I am way too independent to have a man in my life I am afraid, I don't think many men would be able to handle my independents, I love men don't get wrong but not on a permanent basis, there was only one man I would have given up my independence for but he passed away so I feel he could never be replaced so why bother even trying to, so I pefer to to just have good friends rather than husband, yes and you are right people think there is something wrong with you at times, they say these things but a few of my married friends have at times told me how lucky I am and how smart I was never getting married, this is usually when they are fighting. It is becoming rather common place for women not wanting to get married.

I haven't been there but more power to you. You are exactly right men are like children (the one I found anyway.) Maybe if it wasn't so drilled into us as children that we have to marry and have children, carry on the name ect. we would be better off. Maybe there would be more marriages that lasted and not end in divorce. You were born into this world alone why is it we have to have a partner before we die? Live life the way you are comfortable. As long as you are happy is all that matters.

I'm about to turn 30 first quarter next year and I am still single and never married. I do have a boyfriend and we talked about getting married by the end of this year, but now I am not so sure. My parents are urging me to get married, saying what in the world am I still waiting for? But, I really don't know. If it's going to happen it will happen. No use rushing things, right?