WHICH WOULD YOU CHOOSE? AN HONEST PARTNER or A GOOD PROVIDER?

Philippines
August 7, 2007 5:41am CST
I am into some kind of a dilemna lately. I hope I can find some answers here. I need your honest to goodness opinion please. I hope all of you who respond to this post really understand what I mean. Thank you all in advance!
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10 responses
• India
7 Aug 07
Since I value honesty I would undoubtedly choose an honest partner.I think if you are both honest in the relationship you build a strong bond and then everything else just falls in place.A strong bond between you and your partner will help you both to overcome any hurdle in life.
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• Philippines
9 Aug 07
Thank you for your comment. I value honesty too.
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
hi there.. I should definitely go for a honest partner.. Even if our world today is based on practicality, but what does money do when your partner is fooling you? It wouldn't make you happy anyway.. An honest partner may be vocal in all his emotions or any sentiments, and as his partner you can help him in finding out solutions for that. As for money issue, it can be settled if both of you does ways on having income.. :D
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
You have a point. Thnak you for your opinion.
@pilbara (1436)
• Australia
8 Aug 07
I would go for honesty. I'm quite capable of providing for myself and in fact since my husband was injured I support our family anyway. If you can't have honesty and respect then a relationship is not worth much anyway, all the things wealth can buy can't make you happy.
• Philippines
8 Aug 07
Thank you for your comments.
@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
8 Aug 07
i will go for an honest partner.,why? because you can provide your needs all by yourself,.you can earn money by all yourself by you cannot force someone to be honest with you. you cannot please him and tell everything on you and guys will not ever tell you their "monkey business" so better go for an honest man...
• Philippines
9 Aug 07
Thank you for taking the time to help me out. Much appreciated.
@taurean83 (505)
• United States
8 Aug 07
In my opinion it is Honest Partner,because as long as your partner is sincere and honest to you,you feel good and proud,you won't be in bad situation cause there wil always be someone in your backup but if you have everything which your boyfriend has provide you and not the honest and sincere feeling from him,the relation is useless.
• Philippines
9 Aug 07
Thank you for your time Taurean.
@Vixx06 (162)
7 Aug 07
I am going to go agaimst everyone here. I would choose a good provider. I am nearly 40 with 3 daughters and honesty does not keep a family going. I had a relationship with a very honest guy who had not intention of working. Not again thank you. A good provider will look after the family and I want my girls to have the best. I know this sounds bad but at my age security is very important.
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
Thank you! You have a point, a very good one at that. Somehow this is the very reason for my confusion. I am not young I am 35, nearly your age so security is something I have to consider and I feel this is very important.
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 Aug 07
I would definately go for the honest one. a relation without honest is not a good one - trust is the number one thing in a relation! Hopefully you will be able to provide for eachother as well
• Philippines
9 Aug 07
Thank you for taking the time to post your comment.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
An honest partner is what I would choose, because I do not tolerate infidelity. We can live our life poor, as long as we are happy. But not a life of wealth, yet full of treachery. I always believe that money is not worth an ounce of happiness, imoney is only a temporary source of escape from what reality is..
• Philippines
9 Aug 07
Thank you Raijin.
@tantal25 (838)
• United States
7 Aug 07
in my opinion, i'd rather choose the honest one. i dunno, maybe because i cannot stand the fact that my husband is a good provider, but a womanizer as well.
• Philippines
9 Aug 07
*sigh* Thank you Tantal. I really appreciate this.
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
For me, if your partner is honest, it means that he loves you and your family. he will do anything to provide for the family.
• Philippines
9 Aug 07
Thank you Sweetmae for your comment.