You love someone!!
August 8, 2007 7:47am CST
If you love some one but you are very shy to tail him that and you found out if you dont tail him that you love him you will lose him so what you will???
17 Aug 07
From my experience, I say it's not really fitting to go about and tell someone you love them unless you see that they like you or have hints of liking you. A lot of friendship had been lost due to the proclamation of love by the other person while the other isn't ready to go to that level. I think it's different when it's pretty obvious you like each other rather than only one-side is in love. I had a very good friend before, we talk a lot, have fun moments together and I fell for him. I was so certain he fell for me too but he just couldn't express it. I regret the moment I told him how I felt. He slowly became distant. I know they don't mean to but it's just awkward to be with someone when you know he/she loves you then you don't love him/her back the way that you do. I know we are all afraid to lose a love. It's indeed difficult to find that special someone who could make your heart beat so loudly, but I guess everything has it's time and place. No matter how much you love the person, you can never force the person to love you back if he/she just can't love you. I say let's not fear love. If not saying anything would make you lose him/her, then so be it. Maybe he/she isn't the one for you. If you are a girl, I say wait on it but don't spend your entire life waiting for someone who just couldn't love you. Give him the chance to say it, but don't force it and never ignore other people who are willing to say how they feel for you because maybe you are just blinded by infatuation that's why you can't see right. On the other hand, if you are a guy. Give it time and give her subtle indications of you liking her. Don't go all the way expressing 'I LOVE YOU' as if in the movies ~ most girls fear this, especially if they haven't really thought of you more than friends. Take your time and be patient. For you'll both know if the love is true. No words are needed to know if both your heart beats the same rhythm. True love can never be found where it doesn't truly exist; nor can it be hidden when it truly does. =)
8 Aug 07
Well, in my experience.. When I realized that I was falling for this girl who happens to be my "bestfriend" .. I was so hesitant.. I didn't know what to do. But with my own guts and will, I told her the next day that I love her.. so much.. It's been almost 5 years since that time.. After she knew how I feel, our friendship totally fell apart. We never talked to each other since. My case was, I told someone how I feel and that someone left me. :( It really depends on the person you love.. But definitely, you should tell him/her what you really feel. Who knows? Maybe he/she may feel the same way too.. It's now or never.